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  • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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    4 months ago

    What does it take to be comfortable around people while in a crop top? It’s crazy to me that people can like just wear sports bras. I don’t mind how my belly looks, but I don’t want other people looking at it. Augh.

    • kristina [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      after you wear revealing clothing enough times (holy fuck it took me so long to show off my cleavage on date nights) you kinda just get used to it and stop freaking out. its definitely a new sensation for a while. i recommend doing it around friends a lot first

      • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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        4 months ago

        Yeah, I’ve tried and it’s gone ok. Why am I so embarrassed around my family tho? Like, they’ve seen me shirtless it’s fine.

        • kristina [she/her]
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          4 months ago

          a lot also probably saw you pissing and shitting yourself at some point too. i get it though, i've had bad hangups with family before in terms of presentation. sometimes it feels higher stakes

    • Yor [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      it took me a few years into transition to be comfortable with crops and they definitely get you more attention. when I was testing the waters a bit, I found having higher waisted shorts/pants helped it not feel as daunting

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      4 months ago

      Do you love your tummy? Might make it easier to show off, Idk.