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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    2 months ago
    waffling about orchitectomy stuff

    I haven't made the call yet but Oh man, I'm probably gonna have to inform my dad that I'll be down for a couple days or weeks or whatever due to orchi, holy shit. What am I even gonna do about that?

    Further: my endo is cool, but is the surgeon or whoever gonna be super fucking weird about it? Is every staff member I interact with gonna be super fucking weird about it?

    distress For a split second I had hoped that being more chill about my anatomy now would help, but talking to basically-randoms, or like, your dad, about your body still seems really unfun.

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      How much detail do you need to give your dad though, if you don't want to? Just say you're getting surgery shrug-outta-hecks

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        He is so going to ask if this is THE SURGERY just because Idk, why wouldn't he. It would be so fucking awkward to explain, ggghhhhhhhh I do NOT want to discuss with my fucking DAD about that bocchi-cry

        He also might ask if it's surgery on my sternum or smth, and if I say "no" well...........

        • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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          2 months ago

          You could blame all future surgeries as being your sternum, could be kinda funny.

        • naom3 [she/her]
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          2 months ago

          You could just say it’s a different surgery and leave it at that maybe? I guess it kinda depends on how likely he is to pry about it

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            2 months ago

            Yeah basically what I'm worried about, if he pries. Also if I lie I have to keep a bit going......