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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    3 months ago

    smuglord C'mon, they don't even really make gay VNs....

    madeline-bruh fuckin dumb fuckin visual navel shit

    woo!

    Uh, moving after elementary school caused me to lose a friend group and then suffer through middle and high school, but not really I guess. Mostly I guess all the moves just badly upset my sense of permanence, made me weird about stuff and places. Really angry and shitty about it.

    I believe u can meow-hug

    knight-nod They're right yaknow!!! That shit can fuck you up, it's not good!! I wouldn't blame yourself, like it's bad to do but I 1000% see why you did it. Shoutouts to me participating in my ex's small pp humilation kink for a sec, which was an entire thing, blegh. Yes though, see if my wife expressed not being into something and then did it anyway, I'd be concerned. If voidgoblin wife then said "haha it wasn't as bad as I expected" then madeline-shock all fuckin everything is stopping, we are having a serious discussion about what we want. Your ex had a responsibility imo to ask you more about that, seriously that's sucky.

    Nooooooooooo Maria Griffiths is a bad role model, look what I did aubrey-cry-2 Do not become an estrogenless ball of sadness and trauma pls!

    • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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      3 months ago

      (They actually do make gay vns I just haven't read any)

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      After elementary isn't quite as bad but it's still shitty and could've been a problem. It's worth exploring imo, if only to get more confident in your assessment of that part of your life.

      Thank u :meow-hug:

      I guess I shouldn't blame myself, yeah. I just feel like it's a case of my inexperience making me bad at relationshipping.

      *removed externally hosted image* I'm sorry what. Actually please don't clarify I don't need to know. It sucks that she did that to you and I'm sure it wasn't your fault either :meow-hug:

      Is it really that concerning...?

      No, I will base my life off of the cool irresponsible trans woman who does drugs! :badeline-jokerfied:

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        3 months ago

        I bet they're cringe!! I bet they're all like bad yuri manga!!! emilie-smug

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        agni-pain Nah I don't wanna think about school again, fuck that shit... uh death to amerikkka instead...

        meow-hug

        It could be that, but inexperience is also not your fault either. Absolutely not your fault, although I think it's worthy to note that it might be easier for young people to hurt eachother in relationships that way, not knowing better. Def some of that with me, which...

        basil-anxious-smile Yeah it was really epic, not the worst thing she did but like, man, y'know... But yes, I am pretty sure none of that shit was my fault. I was a stupid kid who didn't know anything either, but I def said I didn't want to and did not give enthusiastic consent more than enough times.

        Um I think it is, a lot of normos probably wouldn't fuss it and just do whatever feels good for them, but in a loving relationship where all parties give a shit... if there's even a whiff of less-than-enthusiastic-consent, discussion needs to happen imo. Especially because you said outright you weren't comfortable with it, and then "it wasn't as bad" big honkin red flag for discussion to happen. I think especially anyone into kink like that should be more aware.

        oooaaaaaaauhhh Heroin in a sock in the glove compartment time!

    • magi [null/void]M
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      3 months ago

      That's why we have an equal partnership, enthusiastic consent is extremely important when we've both been through trauma.
      Lots of patience and care and open discussion along with respecting one another. Being very clear in what you want and don't. safe, sane, consentual are important rules to go by. comrade-raccoon