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A year later and i still misgender myself in my head from time to time :(
I still refer to presenting femme as "gay shit" in my head
Are you wrong tho?
I don't think presenting femme makes anyone gay by default.
Then again, I'm NB, so I don't know what would make me gay
Counterpoint: anything is gay if you want it to be
eats breakfast in a sapphic manner
Eating my daily bowl of fruit-loops so the gay enters my body
I have millennial
Literally everything except perfect adherence to cis roles is gay
Been a long time but I hate this brainworm a lot ✨
I had to put active effort into mental word replacement. Was brutal but worth it.
it gets better.
on a somewhat related note, i cringe every time i hear my deadname just said to someone or aloud like generally.
i have a fear that someone will recognize me and yell it at me while in a store or somewhere
I'm about 2 months in and I definitely do this, but I also frequently imagine my ideal self as some ridiculous barbarian woman swinging a battleaxe around, like the kind you'd see in Frank Frazetta art.
I'm debating on which one of these is more problematic.