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  • Moss [they/them]
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    3 months ago

    My cishet housemate has such brainworms about gender, its so weird. Like she always judges people on their gender, says their gender explains whatever personality trait she's talking about. She is in theory supportive of trans people, but its clear that she sees us as outsiders to the "normal" gender roles. She is a feminist, but completely entrenched in cishet gender norms. Its bizarre. I have no conception of gender so to see someone so obsessed with gender in such a weird way is just strange

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      3 months ago

      says their gender explains whatever personality trait she's talking about

      Astrology bullshit but for gender???

      • Moss [they/them]
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        3 months ago

        Kinda. Like we were just doing a jigsaw and she said I was doing it "very femininely" because I was delicately picking up pieces. How does that even come in to her mind. Being delicate = feminine, being fast = masculine. What. Heteronormativity is such nonsense

        • magi [null/void]M
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          3 months ago

          It's frustrating how much mundane shit people arbitrarily gender, like fuck off with that shit. should abolish it and be done

        • sneak100
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          18 days ago

          deleted by creator

    • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]
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      3 months ago

      when I read this I thought about the gender accelerationist manifesto, gender as class and created to reinforce reproductive roles and also the way it is enforced

      sorry I just read it last night, so its on my mind

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        I missed this comment when it was first posted but this slaps and is a banger.