Did you know that abusers engage in love bombing? Love bombing is when you meet someone on Tinder but then they don't like you, so they go date someone else.

Contrary to popular belief it's not abuse when someone confides in you that their privacy has been violated, so you screenshot that exact message and post it to your large TikTok audience, triggering a worldwide harassment and doxxing campaign over someones lack of sexual morality, and worst of all, not continuing to date YOU

Really cool to get Quaker Oats or something to call your date a fucking slut

https://mobile.twitter.com/ohheyjenna/status/1483887997430992896

  • joaomarrom [he/him, comrade/them]
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    3 years ago

    You see, this is why I renounce all romantic relationships of all kinds. Not even hookups, no kissing, no fucking. I do not fuck. I do not get involved. Relationships and related interests have always been toxic for me, and this here, this is the state of romance in 2022. Fuck all this, I'll just be out here shooting a bow and arrow and doing my woodworking in peace. Please do not try to fuck me. Let's be friends. Let's not fuck.

        • joaomarrom [he/him, comrade/them]
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          3 years ago

          I'm sorry I came off like that, comrade. I elaborated a bit on my first point in another comment, I hope I sound a bit more reasonable there :)

      • joaomarrom [he/him, comrade/them]
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        3 years ago

        Lol, I know how it sounds, but it's not about women, or anything or anyone in particular aside from me. I've had relationships in the past, one of which was really great and ended on very friendly terms. It's just that I find it deeply exhausting to connect to people, and this kind of thing that's in the OP seems to happen so often. It's exhausting. It drains me... it's like independent of gender and sexuality, there is always a risk inherent to relationships that I'm simply not willing to take anymore.

        I hope people find their own thing, and I totally respect that, I just want people to be happy. That includes me, and rather than getting involved and risking getting hurt again, I decide not to engage. That's all... I'm sorry if that sounds like mgtow horseshit to the other commenter, it's just my way of protecting what little mental health I have. Staying here inside my shell, doing my thing. Maybe I was grandstanding a bit in my original comment, though, so there's that. I hope I cleared things up, comrades!