It's rough at times. I try and remain as open about everything as I can towards her. That's why I literally approached her about this matter shortly after I realized where the conversation with this guy was going. However, it seems to me that a lot of things were considered implied on her part when we started dating. Gods, my fucking relationship with my wife is so good cause we communicate so well, so it's hard to see how this is going so poorly due to communication. I mean, it's literally the number one thing I tell to people who come to me for relationship advice. Communication is key. Without it, things will eventually fall apart.