I would like one (1) friend please, does anyone here know how to go about acquiring one on the cheap?

  • StarlightGlimmer [they/them]
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    2 years ago

    I can't have friends cus they always only wanna fuck and then it's either another relationship or nothing

    • DinosaurThussy [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      People have a real hard time separating platonic, romantic, and sexual attraction. Including me, unfortunately 😔

    • FidelCashflow [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      I am a guy so I have had the opposite situation. After hooking up with people we tend to end up friends. That might just be a kink thing though.

    • sappho [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      I have also experienced this problem. The solution was to avoid hetero men

    • Frogmanfromlake [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      That's one of the most annoying things to me. Like you can't be friends with someone of the opposite sex without people assuming you're fucking, eventually going to fuck, or secretly have feelings for each other. I'd talk to a woman in a purely platonic way and rumors would spread that we had "a thing" or I was going to "get with that." This was said by both men and women.

      • NewAcctWhoDis [any]
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        2 years ago

        There's something weirdly nice about going on a date with someone, having it go poorly, then ending up friends. It makes me feel like I made a good choice asking them out in the first place.