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  • Sasuke [comrade/them]
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    2 years ago

    in first grade a girl asked me if a wanted to dig a hole with her and another friend after school so we could get to china

    and i said yes and we've been best friends ever since

    :screm-pretty:

    moral of the story is that girls love digging holes and you would know this if you actually asked girls to dig holes with you

    • DinosaurThussy [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      This is a much better question imo. Let’s talk about gender affirmation.

      I think most trans people can attest that gender affirmation can come from weird places. You can acknowledge that something isn’t inherently gendered or doesn’t need to be gendered while also acknowledging that you yourself experience it as gendered. Sometimes that might be rooted in some weird sexism, but you can absolutely pick that apart for yourself if you want and it usually results in you enjoying the thing you already enjoyed in a way that’s more self-actualizing anyway.

      In other words, as long as you’re not projecting weird hole digging expectations onto others, digging a whole is absolutely dudes rocking

      • SaniFlush [any, any]
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        2 years ago

        Are you saying that trans dudes should try digging a deep dark hole?

        • DinosaurThussy [they/them]
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          2 years ago

          If a shovel sparked gender euphoria for me, I’d have a trench around my entire property by now. And if cis men approached their own masculinity half as thoughtfully as trans men, the world would be a better place. Potentially full of holes, but better.

        • Speaker [e/em/eir]
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          2 years ago

          It's a lot simpler if you limit yourself to the four humours, since then you can simplify the problem by only having to reason about the behavior of the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. They each correspond to one of the humours, they all live in a hole in the ground, and I'll leave it to you to draw the obvious conclusion.

    • Aryuproudomenowdaddy [comrade/them]
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      2 years ago

      https://youtu.be/O0gG5eJcVaw

      There was a post on :reddit-logo: a few months ago in I think r/relationshipadvice by a girl whose boyfriend spent all his free time digging a hole that he was beginning to reinforce.

  • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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    2 years ago

    i think women can be and should be welcome in the hole. i think the goal of feminism should be to free women to dig more holes to their hearts content.

  • CommieElon [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    This is such a specific urge that I have no other response than dudes rock.

  • jabrd [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    Ladies don’t know what it means to be a sweaty muscular dude rough housing with all your sweaty muscular friends. They try to picture it in their heads and it’s blank! SAD

    • Speaker [e/em/eir]
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      2 years ago

      People with aphantasia just don't understand the masculine urge to get sweaty with the boys.

  • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
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    2 years ago

    women just dont understand

    This comes across as sexist

    men are more inclined to

    This one is better

  • Kanna [she/her]
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    2 years ago

    Just an average https://hexbear.net/ post