• Erika3sis [she/her, xe/xem]
      hexbear
      16
      3 months ago

      Me when I can't figure out fundamental frequencies and spectral rolloff so I study directional verbs and locus indexing

  • Tommasi [she/her]
    hexbear
    27
    3 months ago

    You're commited now, you just have to keep doing it

    • Xx_Aru_xX [she/her]
      hexagon
      hexbear
      9
      3 months ago

      at some point I considered getting a necklace with a bell on it to so I can get people's attention

      • Awoo [she/her]
        hexbear
        8
        3 months ago

        People might assume you have certain proclivities...

        • Xx_Aru_xX [she/her]
          hexagon
          hexbear
          5
          3 months ago

          Other way around for me, my normal speaking voice is unheard, but my yelling voice is way too loud and aggressive.

  • Owl [he/him]
    hexbear
    13
    3 months ago

    Write him a letter.

    Heck just print this meme out and hand it to him.

    • Awoo [she/her]
      hexbear
      10
      3 months ago

      Heck just print this meme out and hand it to him.

      michael-laugh

  • Cromalin [she/her]M
    hexbear
    8
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    print a little business card that says "not deaf, just not talking"

  • l33tstr33t [she/her, comrade/them]
    hexbear
    6
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    This happened to me too so here's what I say - roll with it. I think if you look at it from the right angle, it's incredibly comforting to know that you don't have to talk and they're cool with it, even if it is a bit awkward.

    CW - transphobia

    I don't know what kind of store it is for you but it happened to me at a sandwich place, and if I had a bad experience somewhere else where I felt judged because of my voice it was really nice having a safe backup place to fall back to when I needed it.