honestly earth sucks too much to worry about the things that get the happy neurotransmitters going in your brain. Like maybe don't support awful people or buy into terrible ideologies, but no one's gonna know if you torrent and watch a harvey weinstein film or the west wing or something.
Not OP but I've had a pretty good experience with Plex, which afaik is the most popular self-hosted media server software. Based on the $5/mo I'm guessing they use the premium version of Plex