• wombat [none/use name]
    hexagon
    hexbear
    107
    2 months ago

    I’m an Iranian immigrant. You really just need to remind her of the benevolence of the west. Austria, France, and the USA showed my family clemency and grace. Austria and France let them in as refugees, the US gave them citizenship. They’re successful business owners. I’m in law school and work for the CA legislature. This kind of success story does not exist outside of the west. Seriously, immigrants have no better choice than a western country, and that’s where my loyalty lies because of the huge chance and opportunity the west gave my family.

    agony-shivering

    • YearOfTheCommieDesktop [they/them]
      hexbear
      99
      edit-2
      2 months ago

      This kind of success story does not exist outside of the west

      This. This is the completely unquestioned propaganda nugget that holds the whole belief system together. Who told you that? Why would you believe that?

      Enormous, and economically successful countries like China, just have no immigrants, no refugees, and no social mobility? (not that the US has a ton, there's a lot of unacknowledged luck involved in this story too)

      This story can absolutely happen in other countries. China even has a higher income mobility than the US. And if you look at the statistics, immigrants are actually disproportionately likely to be pulled down into the cycle of poverty that exists in the US, there's an alternate universe not so different from our own where this dipshit's parents had the resources to leave Iran, eventually landed in the US, and actually experienced downward mobility not upward, and rather than becoming exploiters themselves, hit a speed bump along the way like a serious injury or foreclosure or god knows what else and instead became destitute low-wage workers, who can't afford to live in (most of anyhow) CA, send their kid to law school to do unpaid internships, etc.

      This person really has not considered that they aren't the protagonist of real life and most people's stories don't look like theirs

          • sooper_dooper_roofer [none/use name]
            hexbear
            3
            edit-2
            2 months ago

            Aren't Iranian nationals pretty different from Iranian Americans

            Iranian nationals seem pretty chill but Iranian Americans are probably as bad as Cuban Americans. I was just recounting how many American-born Iranian descent bootlickers I know, and then I remembered Jontron exists (aright counts for half I know but yea)

            • @AMDIsOurLord@lemmy.ml
              hexbear
              4
              2 months ago

              Iranian nationals are different but we still have top tier cringe on the Iranian corner of the internet

      • TrashGoblin [he/him, they/them]
        hexbear
        34
        2 months ago

        I've heard like a million stories of Middle Eastern medical doctors and professors who had to become cab drivers when they came to the US.

        • MelianPretext [they/them]
          hexbear
          26
          2 months ago

          The top brass crème of compradors have had that happen to them once they got to the land of milk and honey. The former finance minister of Afghanistan now does Uber driving in DC.

          https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2022/03/18/afghanistans-last-finance-minister-now-dc-uber-driver-ponders-what-went-wrong/

          • @destroyamerica@lemmygrad.ml
            hexbear
            17
            2 months ago

            wtf, imagine getting in an uber and you're talking with the driver and they bring up they used to be the finance minister of afghanistan lmao

    • jackmarxist [any]
      hexbear
      58
      2 months ago

      Betting 100$ that this guy calls other immigrants 'illegals'

    • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
      hexbear
      52
      2 months ago

      "wow the west didn't execute my family at the customs booth just because we come from a race of backwards communist islamist psychopaths. truly liberal democracy is the way, the truth, and the light."

    • EllenKelly [comrade/them]
      hexbear
      19
      2 months ago

      Your friend needs a life. Join a gym with her, start a running club, get her a Switch, get her obsessed with something besides social media.

      68 upvotes

      😱

  • edge [he/him]
    hexbear
    98
    2 months ago

    I find it fascinating how every single time it is the exact same arguments, same wording, same tactics.

    The only acceptable topic is the genocide perpetrated by the Oppressor on the Oppressed If you bring up any other topic, ask any question, anything at all, you don't think Palestinians are people It is like you, and her, are reading from the exact same ideological manual. it is scary.

    Liberals really struggle with moral consistency.

    It "sounds like we're reading from the same manual" because it's the natural reaction to a fucking genocide.

    It's the same arguments and wording because it's 100% correct and it's all that should be needed.

    • PKMKII [none/use name]
      hexbear
      62
      edit-2
      2 months ago

      When their arguments all sound the same, it’s because they’re brainwashed.

      When our arguments all sound the same, it’s a sign that we’re the adults in the room.

    • Ideology [she/her]
      hexbear
      49
      2 months ago

      During one of the news cycles, I accidentally clicked to view a pic and it was of a lady slumped over in her car with a gunshot wound in her head and was like "nope, I'm good. Absolutely fuck all of this and everyone who supports it."

      I can't fucking imagine that but 20000 times.

  • Tommasi [she/her]
    hexbear
    95
    2 months ago

    Very nuanced, not-at-all-racist liberals pretending PoC only care about Palestine because of "tribalism" and not because it's genocide.

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
      hexbear
      44
      2 months ago

      Weird how a kneejerk support for the US and a refusal of listening to anyone who does otherwise isn’t considered “tribalism”

  • Awoo [she/her]
    hexbear
    94
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    I’m an Iranian immigrant. You really just need to remind her of the benevolence of the west.

    lmaooooooooooo

    • sooper_dooper_roofer [none/use name]
      hexbear
      11
      edit-2
      2 months ago

      I’m an Iranian immigrant

      ngl this line is basically the new "I'm not racist but..."
      You hear that line, you just know something whack is following

  • very_poggers_gay [they/them]
    hexbear
    80
    2 months ago

    Same. A lot of my Muslim friends are completely off the rails now. The post Oct 7 reaction is shocking honestly.

    Of course, those who strongly oppose genocide and reject the system responsible are off the rails.

    But the smug, suburbanite neoliberals endlessly denying, normalizing, or defending the genocide on reddit are practically glued to the rails. saul-your-honor

  • BeamBrain [he/him]
    hexbear
    80
    2 months ago

    My friend of Algerian descent is getting radicalised, fast, and I don't know what to do

    Neolib's friend go on Chapo

    • Xx_Aru_xX [she/her]
      hexbear
      57
      2 months ago

      My friend of Algerian descent is getting radicalised, fast, and I don't know what to do

      Turns out that surviving victims of colonialism would like other victims to survive.

  • Hestia [comrade/them,she/her]
    hexbear
    79
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    I have a very educated Palestinian colleague who on October 9th was talking to me about Apartheid states and European (sole!) responsibility for Hamas' acts of 'defence'.

    Some of these things are as built into people as allegiance to a football team.

    He's very educated, and a Palestinian. Hmmm... Time to discard his opinion!

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
      hexbear
      58
      2 months ago

      It reminds me of Christians who post shit like “My best friend just came out as gay. How do I get him to convert back to a straight man and get him to repent???”

  • SUPAVILLAIN@lemmygrad.ml
    hexbear
    71
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    The bill is coming due for the global colonizer complex, and they can't even handle the idea. Further, I want every single cracker in that thread really fixing their faces to shittalk Fanon put on pikes and paraded through downtown Atlanta

  • 666PeaceKeepaGirl [any, she/her]
    hexbear
    61
    2 months ago

    It is getting genuinely scary, I am pretty sure that if a politician was attacked or killed

    Oh no, not the politicians!

  • BeamBrain [he/him]
    hexbear
    61
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    And the thing is, Bernie endorsed POTUS a long time ago, but you'd be forgiven for forgetting that given how rabid some of his followers still are.

    lmao

    When you define the world into oppressor and oppressed and justify anything the oppressed do against the oppressor you’re going to manufacture this type of insanity. This philosophy has become extremely common in US higher education, unsurprised to see it growing elsewhere too.

    This doesn’t really explain it though. Jews have been the group that has most consistently been oppressed throughout world history.

    Hmmm perhaps there's something going on here that you're failing to grasp

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
      hexbear
      49
      2 months ago

      Literally most of his followers ended up voting for Hillary and Biden lol. Who are these people mad about???

      • SSJ2Marx [he/him]
        hexbear
        49
        2 months ago

        It doesn't matter what "most" of his supporters did, any number of his former supporters who didn't fall in line when he did is all that's needed to condemn the entire movement.

    • bunnygirl [she/her]
      hexbear
      19
      2 months ago

      yeah that whole second thread you mentioned actively raised my blood pressure

  • GnastyGnuts [he/him]
    hexbear
    60
    2 months ago

    Neoliberals are creepy to me. It's unfathomable to me that you could have this reaction to a genocide and to other people caring about it.

  • FnordPrefect [comrade/them, he/him]
    hexbear
    60
    2 months ago

    Surreal in a sense since so much shit happens in Syria and I doesn't even register

    Is there such a thing as a Freudian typo?

  • RyanGosling [none/use name]
    hexbear
    58
    2 months ago

    Tbh, and this may be an unpopular opinion, but just remain their friend and don’t get involved discussing these issues and show them love. Just say you disagree if they bring up politics.
    I have a friend who is a Twelver Shia who idolises Soleimieni. We just don’t discuss these things and remain good friends. If you want to change their mind, it is more likely their mindset will shift if they are close to someone who thinks different.

    Would you say the same thing about a neo Nazi?

    The answer has to be yes. [some shit about the bible]

    This is the problem with liberals lol. They’ll know someone they disagree with on such a fundamental level, but they’re too much of a birch to confront them

    • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
      hexbear
      46
      2 months ago

      To let things slide for the sake of peace and friendship when a person has clearly gone wrong, and refrain from principled argument because he is an old acquaintance, a fellow townsman, a schoolmate, a close friend, a loved one, an old colleague or old subordinate. Or to touch on the matter lightly instead of going into it thoroughly, so as to keep on good terms. The result is that both the organization and the individual are harmed. This is one type of liberalism.

      mao-wave

      It does take skill, effort, and patience to talk about major points of disagreement (and actually go in depth on them) without blowing up a friendship. But that's valuable stuff to develop anyway, and if you can't talk to a friend about topics like this, how are you supposed to have the same conversation with strangers?

      • very_poggers_gay [they/them]
        hexbear
        43
        2 months ago

        When a liberal says something like "just remain their friend and don’t get involved discussing these issues and show them love. Just say you disagree if they bring up politics", I wonder how much of that response comes from them knowing very little about what they actually believe. Like, could they really explain how they arrived at their opinion or why they believe the things they do in conversation?

        Or is it just like taking medication - "I don't know how it works but this is what I was prescribed"?

  • Evilsandwichman [none/use name]
    hexbear
    58
    2 months ago

    But she is getting obsessed with her "Algerian identity", talking about how "look what the French did to my people", when she is of French nationality.

    Ah yes, because citizenship should blind one to what their country did to their people, and in living memory no less. Also the slaughter of peaceful French Algerian protesters by a chief of police who served in Vichy France.

    • RyanGosling [none/use name]
      hexbear
      47
      edit-2
      2 months ago

      I’m of American nationality and I will never forgive the great satanic nation for forcing my family to bring me over here

      • SUPAVILLAIN@lemmygrad.ml
        hexbear
        15
        edit-2
        2 months ago

        Same boat, and I'm never forgiving the nation of devils for scattering my family to the cosmic winds over at least a hundred fifty years if not longer, stripping me of any history or culture one could take pride in, and leaving me with a nebulous void to either be filled with "Amerikan", or nothing. I'd rather be Nothing.

  • BodyBySisyphus [he/him]
    hexbear
    55
    2 months ago

    Your friend needs a life. Join a gym with her, start a running club, get her a Switch, get her obsessed with something besides social media.

    Have you thought about play vibeo gameos so ur friend don't think abt her current country's destruction and immiseration of her natal country and possibly her growing self awareness that but for a few lucky breaks she would probably be on the business end of the extractive apparatus she currently benefits from?

      • BodyBySisyphus [he/him]
        hexbear
        34
        2 months ago

        Yeah, absolutely the pinnacle of r/neoliberalism to give advice about a friend who's obviously feeling a lot of stress about current events that amounts to "have you tried looking for ways to get her to stop talking about it?"