Whole post is dogshit, but Lemmygrad is the only sizeable instance blocked on beehaw, so I can't help but assume this is mostly addressed about us:

Some of the instances that we have chosen to defederate with have explicit political stances and ideologies. Their political stance and ideology had nothing to do with the choice to defederate. The choice to defederate was based on the amount of hate speech present on the instance and/or explicitly endorsing it

Our admins ban all bigotry, and are extremely quick to ban them, so this is complete bullshit. In addition per @CriticalResist8 , they originally claimed that they blocked us because we were too active and filling up their disk space (spoiler: they were just incompetent, it was just log files they weren't deleting). I hate these smug, weaselly little liars dude :hasan-smash:

Also, the comments complaining about the lemmy devs again. Please, I beg you, switch to kbin you fucking losers. The devs never should have helped your bum asses out. They offer free hosting, put your server in reccomended (and in fact were only 1 of 2 in the recommended section for a long time!), basically bend over backwards to accommodate you and all you can think of is "muh evil tankies"

  • sadschmuck [none/use name]
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    1 year ago

    After a buzz over to Hexbear

    I find the strain of far-left over there that is more concerned with backbiting and defending former-communist and current parody-communist regimes because blind ‘if west bad, not west good’ thinking, than any of the useful zones of leftist activity.

    This is a "deeply left-person" so try to have a civil discussion with them

    • PosadistInevitablity [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Libs always accuse us of using blind ideology to make our decisions while they just follow the state department line.

      Must be nice to live in a world where all your geopolitical rivals just happen to be evil. Only evil people could oppose US hegemony.

    • JuneFall [none/use name]
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      1 year ago

      I find the other point Nullroad (not sure about pronouns, so won't use any) makes to be highligthed, too:

      I didn’t observe anything that was explicitly hate-speech in my 15 minutes buzzin’ around, but it didn’t really feel ‘kind’

      I know few spaces that fell 'kind' after browsing around for 15 minutes (at least online spaces). In my opinion it does feel nice here, but not quite as nice as it did feel for me once, but that is not the point.

      I for one was quite fond (and a couple of people I know) when they visited the site for the first times that there was no kind talk with reactionaries, but instead practical solidarity against transphobes and some other reactionaries including some clear antisemites.

      • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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        1 year ago

        "Not feeling kind" is also a descriptor of how neurotypical people perceive ASD communication styles.

        FWIW, this place felt much "kinder" than Reddit, to me.

        • JuneFall [none/use name]
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          1 year ago

          That first paragraph is quite a good point, that I didn't think about.

          Building up associations on that:

          It might also be related to "tone arguments", too. Favouring civilty over positve peace.

          In addition plenty of white upper middle class US people from Texas that went to Germany did, at least those without intercultural communication courses, feel really put off by the German directness and rudeness, which is in part true, but also just in part a cultural difference (which individuals of course break all and every day).

          I, too, feel that this place is much much kinder than reddit.