Whole post is dogshit, but Lemmygrad is the only sizeable instance blocked on beehaw, so I can't help but assume this is mostly addressed about us:

Some of the instances that we have chosen to defederate with have explicit political stances and ideologies. Their political stance and ideology had nothing to do with the choice to defederate. The choice to defederate was based on the amount of hate speech present on the instance and/or explicitly endorsing it

Our admins ban all bigotry, and are extremely quick to ban them, so this is complete bullshit. In addition per @CriticalResist8 , they originally claimed that they blocked us because we were too active and filling up their disk space (spoiler: they were just incompetent, it was just log files they weren't deleting). I hate these smug, weaselly little liars dude :hasan-smash:

Also, the comments complaining about the lemmy devs again. Please, I beg you, switch to kbin you fucking losers. The devs never should have helped your bum asses out. They offer free hosting, put your server in reccomended (and in fact were only 1 of 2 in the recommended section for a long time!), basically bend over backwards to accommodate you and all you can think of is "muh evil tankies"

  • brain_in_a_box [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    "We don't block instances because they have a different ideology, we do it because of hate speech! Incidentally, we consider having a different ideology to us to be hate speech."

    • macabrett
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      1 year ago

      Is telling someone they're an idiot for believing Democrats the same thing as hate speech? This beehaw admin says yes

      :charlie-brown-lucy-football:

  • CriticalResist8 [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    beehaw is a neoliberal's idea of being a leftist lol. The first thing they did after beehaw was created, when it was still a dead instance with sopuli is to go on lemmy.ml and start shilling their instance by badmouthing lemmygrad. We were here first, buckos.

    You can find all the stuff they say about us with a simple search btw https://beehaw.org/search/q/lemmygrad/type/All/sort/Old/listing_type/Local/community_id/0/creator_id/0/page/1, the thing about their log files was around 10 months ago and shows up in that search.

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      good morning mr critical. I was wondering, are you in the matrix instance admin chat with them?

      • CriticalResist8 [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        with the lemmy.ml admins? I have a direct line to one of them, but otherwise I'm only in the lemmygrad admin chat.

        • ImOnADiet
          hexagon
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          1 year ago

          There’s an instance admin matrix room on the general lemmy server, I guess you’re not in that? Im not really sure what it is, it’s got like 200 people in it

  • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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    1 year ago

    I think what really irks me about the Free Speech Absolutists is how they're obviously full of shit, and they're not fooling anyone, but they just can't bring themselves to just say it. "We blocked them because they're commies, and we hate commies. That's all. Go use a different site if you don't like it." Pathetic.

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      to be absolutely fair to beehaw, they don't claim to be free speech absolutists. In all honesty, you could argue that lemmygrad does violate their whole philosophy of "being nice". We aren't always going to be nice, especially when some hapless liberal starts spewing racism or anticommunism. But that's not what is written here. They're accusing us of hate speech, not "being mean"

      • Changeling [it/its]
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        1 year ago

        They literally think it’s the same thing:

        Beehaw does not tolerate hate speech. Beehaw is an explicitly safe space. We center and promote kindness because that is what we see and love in the world.

        Their idea of safe spaces is not able to account for existing power dynamics if they insist on civility above all else. It’s literally not a safe space. But it is a space that the privileged leadership can label as safe for the sake of their own affirmation.

  • Krause [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    I predicted yesterday that their shitlib purity obsession would eventually lead to them destroying their own community, I didn't expect them do be talking about forking and de-federating from everyone else in just a day later though lol

    [lemmy.ml] gives off the vibe of a more cleaned up and publicly palatable version of Stormfront (A)

    Who types shit like this :stalin-stressed:

    • PosadistInevitablity [he/him]
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      edit-2
      1 year ago

      Being able to lie so freely must feel liberating to liberals.

      Just inventing your own reality. Words are nothing but a way to hurt people you don’t like.

      • Leper_Messiah [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        These are the same types of people like the commenter i once saw in the :warren-snake: subreddit claim that cth was """transphobic"""

        So wrong it was downright befuddling

  • Changeling [it/its]
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    1 year ago

    I would suspect that many of them would identify as progressive because we are explicitly a safe space for minorities.

    Me insisting people use my correct pronouns would get me banned for not being civil enough. I am not safe around these unscratched fascists

    Beehaw does not tolerate hate speech. Beehaw is an explicitly safe space. We center and promote kindness because that is what we see and love in the world.

    Oh my god they think hate speech is when people are mean.

    • PosadistInevitablity [he/him]
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      edit-2
      1 year ago

      Hate speech is when you say Hitler should die, and the more he should die the more hate speech it is.

    • JuneFall [none/use name]
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      1 year ago

      I got banned for calling out a social darwinist and linked to the comment where they were social darwinist and anti natalist against poor on reddit from a major subreddit. So I can relate somewhat to your ban-experiences.

      We center and promote kindness because that is what we see and love in the world.

      Sounds like that Hippie stuff which lead to cults, bad esoteric stuff and anti materialism.

  • Mindfury [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    Some of the instances that we have chosen to defederate with have explicit political stances and ideologies. Their political stance and ideology had nothing to do with the choice to defederate. The choice to defederate was based on the amount of hate speech present on the instance and/or explicitly endorsing it.

    Many, if not most discussions of politics on the internet are poisoned by virtue signaling.

    Get straight in the fucking pit, scum.
    These libs are not subtle

    • JuneFall [none/use name]
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      edit-2
      1 year ago

      virtue signaling

      https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Bartholomew_(journalist)

      Its origin and dunk on its popularizer

      Bartholomew trained as a banker in the City of London. He then moved into journalism with the Financial Times and the Far Eastern Economic Review, working in Hong Kong and Tokyo.[2]

      Returning to England on the Trans-Siberian Railway through communist China and the Soviet Union

      He is critical of the welfare state, which he regards as "dysfunctional".[3] His book The Welfare State We're In received the Institute of Economic Affairs' Arthur Seldon Award in 2005 and the Atlas Foundation’s Sir Antony Fisher Memorial Award in 2007.[4]

      Bartholomew is credited with popularising the term "virtue signalling". Writing in The Spectator in April 2015

      He is the founder and Director of the Museum of Communist Terror.[1]

      In the 2019 European Parliament election, Bartholomew stood as a candidate for the Brexit Party (with picture)

      Books
      The Richest Man in the World: The Sultan of Brunei (1989)
      Yew & Non-Yew: Gardening for Horticultural Climbers (1996)

  • kristina [she/her]
    ·
    1 year ago

    they really can just say whatever they want and everyone believes it, huh

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      pretty much, depressing state of affairs

        • Krause [he/him]
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          1 year ago

          https://lemmygrad.ml/comment/417857 :lenin-laugh:

          In communist Beehaw, the unelected strong men admins censor political content, keeping their people from knowing what true freedom looks like. I once talked to a Beehaw user and they told me that the people in Beehaw don’t even know how to read news articles, they just believe whatever is written in the title of a post from their ruler-sanctioned media sources. The people of Beehaw yearn for freedom, if only we could break through their authoritarian governance and brainwashing.

        • ImOnADiet
          hexagon
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          1 year ago

          the communists get to have their own website where they spew hate speech against :cracker: !!!

  • sadschmuck [none/use name]
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    1 year ago

    After a buzz over to Hexbear

    I find the strain of far-left over there that is more concerned with backbiting and defending former-communist and current parody-communist regimes because blind ‘if west bad, not west good’ thinking, than any of the useful zones of leftist activity.

    This is a "deeply left-person" so try to have a civil discussion with them

    • PosadistInevitablity [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Libs always accuse us of using blind ideology to make our decisions while they just follow the state department line.

      Must be nice to live in a world where all your geopolitical rivals just happen to be evil. Only evil people could oppose US hegemony.

    • JuneFall [none/use name]
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      1 year ago

      I find the other point Nullroad (not sure about pronouns, so won't use any) makes to be highligthed, too:

      I didn’t observe anything that was explicitly hate-speech in my 15 minutes buzzin’ around, but it didn’t really feel ‘kind’

      I know few spaces that fell 'kind' after browsing around for 15 minutes (at least online spaces). In my opinion it does feel nice here, but not quite as nice as it did feel for me once, but that is not the point.

      I for one was quite fond (and a couple of people I know) when they visited the site for the first times that there was no kind talk with reactionaries, but instead practical solidarity against transphobes and some other reactionaries including some clear antisemites.

      • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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        1 year ago

        "Not feeling kind" is also a descriptor of how neurotypical people perceive ASD communication styles.

        FWIW, this place felt much "kinder" than Reddit, to me.

        • JuneFall [none/use name]
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          edit-2
          1 year ago

          That first paragraph is quite a good point, that I didn't think about.

          Building up associations on that:

          It might also be related to "tone arguments", too. Favouring civilty over positve peace.

          In addition plenty of white upper middle class US people from Texas that went to Germany did, at least those without intercultural communication courses, feel really put off by the German directness and rudeness, which is in part true, but also just in part a cultural difference (which individuals of course break all and every day).

          I, too, feel that this place is much much kinder than reddit.

  • Flinch [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    Their political stance and ideology had nothing to do with the choice to defederate.

    :doubt:

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      it's just such a blatant lie, it's the only reason I'm so worked up about this, I'm actually kind of glad those fucking morons at beehaw cant see my comments, but to tell this blatant of a lie is unbelievable

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      the worst part is, we barely even do that, the posting culture is not nearly so developed on lemmygrad as compared to here

  • PorkrollPosadist [he/him, they/them]
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    1 year ago

    But, it just does seem weird being federated with lemmy.ml knowing who runs it, and gives off the vibe of a more cleaned up and publicly palatable version of Stormfront if they wanted to draw in a community that isn’t initially apparent about the extremist views they hold.

    i mean, you have just explained why we are extremely likely to not do that and huge drawbacks to doing so, so i think you’ve answered your own question here absent huge changes to the character of people interacting with us from lemmy.ml

    Get a load of these motherfuckers.

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      Yeah no I saw that too, my jaw dropped when I saw them comparing lemmy.ml to fucking stormfront :agony-consuming: :

    • ImOnADiet
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      @Red Army Dog Cooper

      Question, you mention that the only instances you block allow fascism, however you have blocked both Lemmygrad and preemptively Hexbear, both of them are Communist in nature, and I feel that this is crazy to need to point out, but communism is the polar opposite to Fascism, and they are ideological opposed in every way, You will never find a more ardent anti-facist than a communist, so I feel like this is a bad faith attack on these instances. I also would like to point out that First Hexbear has not federated, nor made any plans to federate with Beehaw, over concerns with Beehaw moderation, and Lemmygrad has Rule 2. No Bigotry Rule 3. be Respectful and Rule 5. No Right Deviationists (No fascists), and they are very well enforced, and Rule 3 in particular is better enforced there than over here on Beehaw.

      @argv_minus_one

      Anti-fascists? These people revere the likes of Mao and Stalin. In what meaningful way were Mao and Stalin different from fascists?

      @Lionir admin

      I also would like to point out that First Hexbear has not federated, nor made any plans to federate with Beehaw, over concerns with Beehaw moderation

      I’m kinda interested to read that because I’ve personally read the opposite.

      @Gaywallet creator mod admin

      Fascism was merely an example of politics that explicitly endorses hate speech, because that’s the criteria we’re using to defed. We are not anti communist, we are perfectly fine with communists that don’t harass users or spread hate speech.

      :what-the-hell: what the hell am I reading

      • Mindfury [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        we are perfectly fine with communists that don’t harass users or spread hate speech.

        begging this mf to define hate speech

        • ImOnADiet
          hexagon
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          1 year ago

          Who knows. If you don't define it you can't say to your users "we're not banning communists, just hate speech :dean-smile:

      • TheLepidopterists [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        Anti-fascists? These people revere the likes of Mao and Stalin. In what meaningful way were Mao and Stalin different from fascists?

        This kind of thing drives me bananas. One of them started the Holocaust and the other ended it. There are obviously a ton of other differences since fascism was created as a tool to protect capitalism from communism, but that on it's own is enough to make me hate anyone who asks this question.

      • LaBellaLotta [any]
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        1 year ago

        That comment about Stalin and Mao really gets me because I remember being raised to believe the same shit. It is a disturbingly common place view in the states. It was a real watershed moment for my own political radicalization to understand how absolutely deranged that is to believe.

        Whatever criticisms of Stalin and Mao one may have, calling them Fascists is just factually incorrect. Those words actually mean things to the rest of the world. That is the true success of internal western propaganda. To render these terms meaningless and thus obfuscate the true nature of political struggle. Understanding that helped me finally start accepting how deeply indoctrinated I was into believe incoherent nonsense that ultimately renders the world we live in today politically inert.

        Knowing what I know now about the sacrifices of the Red Army to stop the Nazi war machine makes these ideas particularly galling. Sacrificing so much so your ostensible Allie’s could rewrite history to lump you in with the monsters you did the lions share of work to defeat. And they tell us the DPRK has the most propagandized people on earth. Absolutely disgusting.

        These are the ideas that excuse the ever stumbling U.S. imperial war machine. These ideas literally obscure any coherent understanding of what it is for a state to commit a genocide. People in the anglosphere deserve their own century of humiliation and their leaders are doing everything they can to make that happen. I only hope that in time the humiliation generates some self reflection that can be seized by leftists organizing IRL. I have very little hope for changing these peoples minds without a big dose of humility first.

  • macabrett
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    1 year ago

    This place is the most kind and welcoming place on the internet so long as you aren't posting into a struggle session or aren't the most insufferable lib known to man

  • iridaniotter [she/her, they/them]
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    1 year ago

    It's true. I posted a requisitioned video from Hexbear that stated that "no act against [bigots] is wrong". Days later and it's still up. What is this if not hate speech towards bigots? :centrist: