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Surgeons are terrible, not a fan. Completely understand being drained but rock climbing sounds fun.
fuck 'em. (sorry I had to) But imo, if you don't want to receive that's for them to deal with. And if they can't
hopefully you'd both find someone more compatible. imo, you shouldn't make decisions on what a future hypothetical partner might want to do. I'm going to get a vasectomy or orchi at some point because I never want to have kids. Some future hypothetical partner can figure that out or we can find other people. If that's even an issue. Go with what you want.