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I know people who still they/them trans men, who explicitly use he/him and xe/xir, and have for years. Like, what? You can understand someone not being cis but them being the opposite gender is too much?
They/them feels sufficiently neutral and inoffensive to some people, I guess. Technically anyone could be they/them. Is acknowledging that someone's pronouns don't match your idea of them in your head too much? (sorry not directed at you specifically to be clear, but to cis people I know)
At that point it's just blatant transphobia.
And yes, many cis people need reeducation.
Many cis people are unwilling to learn anything bar what they learned in school And some of these people call themselves our allies...
I've had to educate a few on neo pronouns and about the ace spectrum
"Reeducating the cis"