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  • QueerCommie [she/her, fae/faer]
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    6 months ago

    Feeling like giving up. And like I'm not really a priority in my gfs life, as much as she insists I am.

    I remember that feeling.. I’m not sure if she [my ex] was just sick of me or preparing to break up at that point. Actually, at first it was just her having a lot of good friends, and my social burden was hoped to be mostly carried by her. Idk. At least she understood my emotional needs (though I put too much on her because I didn’t have enough other friends).

    Good luck. meow-hug

    • rayne [she/her]
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      6 months ago

      Thanks.

      She likes the idea of having a girlfriend and companion. Enjoys cuddling but is not really interested in sex or emotional intimacy. A lot of trauma in her past that's made communication difficult if not impossible. And she doesn't see the seen need to work through it because she's pinned all of our relationship problems on my own trauma and now the gender incongruence, which I've now mostly worked through and am working through, respectively.

      The communication has gotten better as I've come out and healed a lot of trauma. But it feels one-sided and I think I'm the one that wants to break up.

      Feeling sad saying it here :(