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Most likeable person in trans community: ‘I do not actually believe that anybody likes me’.
I’m kidding and I understand where you’re coming from but I don’t think you did much harm and your perspective is still valuable. Not every conversation goes perfect and not everyone is perceptive to what you have to say but that should be okay I think. The different perspectives people in this community have make this space valuable.
I don’t know if this is you but I have a thing where once I fuck up or I sense that people get to know me too well in a space (online or irl) I have to disappear because it makes me uncomfortable. Sometimes I make a new account if it’s online and sometimes I just leave. You should do whatever makes you feel comfortable though, I think it should be clear that a lot of people like you here but if you feel like you want to leave then that’s okay too!
If by "most likeable person" you mean "least perceptive autist in chat" =)
I guess, this is supposed to be what I'm good at though and I fucked up anyway. Feel like a complete asshole kinda. You're right that the diverse viewpoints make the mega and generally the bearsite rad though...
Uh yes to fucking up, no to "knowing too much"... I actually like the idea that people would remember stuff about me, but it's a severe embarrassment reaction (REJECTION SENSITIVITY DYSPHORIA) if I open-mouth-insert-foot somehow, y'know...
Your posts helped me become more comfortable with the fact that I’m trans masc but still like to present feminine in some ways, so take that as a compliment I guess!
Shit, really? I consider my posts to be narrow in focus so this is actually a huge compliment, wtf
I’m the opposite. I say whatever the fuck and start struggle sessions and self crit live, finally trying to get my opponent to like me by showing how I have made the best out of our two positions and it was all fun rhetorical games.