WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA
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Yep, I would just assume that the first is primary (unless a user explicitly stated otherwise). Honestly seeing some people's opinions in this thread may change how I would refer to someone, for example, alternating pronouns used rather than assuming that the first pronoun is always the preferred/primary pronoun.
Now we know =)