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So I've been dating someone who identifies as a cis man and whose gender presentation I can only describe as "pretty gay twink" but who has been on estrogen for 4 years. I was a little confused about it when we first met, but it's actually very cool. I like going out with a guy who I can also talk about trans stuff / hrt with.
I'm not totally sure how things are going with us tho. We spend time together and it's really good. We go on fun dates, cuddle a lot, and have some nice conversations. But I feel like after that it gets all weird. Like we'll barely talk during the week, or he'll leave me on read for house. And it's been a bit hard to make plans recently. We've been doing this for almost two months now. So idk like are we still in the early dating phase, or are we fwbs, or is he just not all that into me? The ambiguity is making me uncomfortable.
Did you ask for help?
I have zero experience myself, so I can't help you by answering your question. I can only remind you that communication is key to any relationship.
Or are you just venting?
He (?) sounds very cool.
ya he uses he/him tho i don't think he cares if he gets called other pronouns.
Not sure what I'm doing lol. You're right about communication, I guess we should talk about where we see things going. Like whether or not we could see ourselves in more of an official relationship in the future.
Which I guess is what I want, maybe? Idk maybe we could just be friends who occasionally have sex, that might be cool too. I've never really done that successfully but that's probably because it was previously with chaser cis guys who I didn't like spending time with that much lol.