I'm at a loss of words. I wish I could have known him better.

  • GVAGUY3 [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    He made out with me once. That was cool.

  • datpiff001 [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I'm sorry. Human language is incapable of offering any true condolence when it comes to losing something as precious and irreplaceable as a living being.

  • Phish [he/him, any]
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    4 years ago

    Fuck man. I'm really sorry to hear that. Stay strong, rely on the people who care about you, and let your emotions out in healthy ways. Much love to you.

  • hirsute [comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    Losing someone close to suicide is really Traumatic. Don’t feel bad about using mental health resources that are available to you. Talk to a counselor if you can, or a clergy member if that’s your thing, what is important is that you work on all the shock and grief that you’re feeling now.

    It takes a really long time to process this kind of a loss. There’s nothing week about finding support for yourself, and getting support where you can.

    If you feel up to it, let your friends family know how much you loved him. Those sorts of sentiments mean the world. We still have cards people sent us after my brother killed himself.

    We tend not to talk about grief, death, and loss. But we should.

  • Steve2 [any]
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    4 years ago

    ❤ Hope things are alright with their family and hope things alright with you.

  • nicklewound [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I'm so sorry. Grieving the death of a loved one is always devastating. Losing them to suicide is an entirely different grieving process as well. If you feel like you need to talk to somebody. Please do not 2nd guess or hesitate. I hope you have someone close to talk to.

    If not, I know I'm a stranger on the internet, but you're welcome to DM me if you need to talk to someone.

    Peace and love, comrade.