I wear basketball shorts to work out and shit is so annoying

  • bananon [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    As someone who’s gotten out of many a swimming pools worrying about this exact issue, I have learned to live with my penis in harmony and realized no one cares. Now I can wear my lemon board shorts in peace 🍋

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    • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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      2 months ago

      Maybe it's just because I have bottom dysphoria and a massive cock, but I feel like it's kinda hard not to notice a whole fuckin sub sandwich stuffed down someone's pants. I don't look at people's genital areas, it makes me feel invasive, but some people are too well endowed not to notice

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        • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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          I get that, I identify as bi, but there's a lot of internalized homophobia and trauma from men that keeps me from ever being sexual with them. I guess it's just a level of intimacy I don't feel comfortable giving, even if it's a one way street like looking at someone

          The only time I can remember ever looking at someone else's dick was when I was in a parking lot in the city facing the sidewalk. Some guy running on the side walk was fucking HUNG and was not wearing compression shorts. You could see that shit flopping a solid foot in front of him. And I'm just in the front seat of the car, unable to really avert my gaze anywhere else. I wasn't seeking it, but I definitely saw it

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            • ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml
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              Your transness is valid dipshit, it came free with your fucking Xbox the concept of identity

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      • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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        2 months ago

        You're getting a lot of people with dicks too small for a print responding. Compression shorts are your only answer, and even then they aren't that good at hiding it. Tucking doesn't work for exercise, having tape down there while trying to do anything physically strenuous on your legs is just asking for it to all come undone. Also if you have a substantial print, you probably don't even have enough room down there to tuck. Just make sure you buy a pair of compression shorts that has enough room for your dick, you'd rather go too big than too small.

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          • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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            2 months ago

            MOOD LOL

            Yeah I want to get a cage at some point. My dick is too big, I've thought about this a lot before and I would feel infinitely happier with a smaller dick. But also the thought of making my dick smaller gets me too excited and all of a sudden I'm rock hard.

            Also, can't work out in a cage, you ever heard a transwoman play DDR?

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          • Awoo [she/her]
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            2 months ago

            starting the lawn mower, a lot, does a bit to incur shrinkage

            This is actually the opposite. Penises very much follow a "use it or lose it" rule. Every single trans woman is informed that even if sexual interest collapses during hormone therapy they must keep using the penis prior to surgery or else. This is important because more to work with is better for surgery outcomes.

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        • gueybana [any]
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          2 months ago

          How big are you talking here? I thought I was larger than average but a sub sandwich sounds fucken gargantuan

          • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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            2 months ago

            Personally? I got about 10 inches or about 25 cm. Average is about 5 inches though, or 12.7 cm.

            My room mate is transmasc and we've talked about this before, we literally think our bodies got switched at birth because I wanted their natural body and they wanted my natural body lol. They definitely have more big dick energy than me

            • gueybana [any]
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              2 months ago

              Yeah, ten is a massive fucking schlong.

                • gueybana [any]
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                  2 months ago

                  Those who want the least are gifted the most and those who want the most are gifted the least

      • bigboopballs [he/him]
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        2 months ago

        oh. well it's never been a problem. maybe my shorts aren't tight enough for it to matter, idk.

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          • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]
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            2 months ago

            I feel that so much. I loved skinny jeans in middle school because I'm trans, but didn't realize why people would laugh at me until years later when I realized that I was not average, but well above average. Nowadays, I'm mostly demi though. I can't even imagine sleeping with someone I'm not intimately connected with unless I'm drunk. I don't really care too much about people looking as long as they're respectful, but no touching unless I love you.

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  • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    The easiest way to do this is tight underwear, loose pants over it. Actually a wide skirt always works regardless of what you're wearing under it, but idk if you want to make being the dude who works out in a kilt your thing.

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  • OgdenTO [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    If it bothers you wear thicker shorts, or compression underwear underneath

  • WhatDoYouMeanPodcast [comrade/them]M
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    2 months ago

    I rely on an unfilled cup supporter/jock strap. I was under the illusion that bigger shorts would help as well, but I suppose not.

  • SpiderFarmer [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    I try not to think of it, I suppose. I also go running rather that gyming, so nobody is getting a solid stare at me.