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  • Thallo [love/loves]
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    2 months ago

    Keep the muscles, Jenniferrr.

    Don't get caught up in compulsory gender expression. Be the buff gorl you were born to be.

    arm-L mari-smug arm-R

    JFC maybe I just need to like change my gender and be NB haha I feel so in the middle

    You don't need to change your gender to be buff, but... It worked out for me. NB is like gender+. You can do whatever you want!

    • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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      2 months ago

      CW discussion about my perceptuon of my own gender and my feelings about how I percieve others in terms of how difficult their gender discovery is

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      Honestly my gender has always been muscle girl anyway. Like, it's just a weird experience being kind of a futchy trans girl cause like, a lot of the time the world just sees me as a man or whatever. Not falling into the masc-fem binary neatly is just... More difficult to navigate. And I have friends who do fall into that binary and honestly I'm just a little jealous sometimes lol

      • Thallo [love/loves]
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        2 months ago

        futchy

        peltier-laugh

        Not falling into the masc-fem binary neatly is just... More difficult to navigate

        You think this is true generally, or is this just a perception you have?

        I'm just a little jealous sometimes

        Why? Because other people more easily identify their gender?

        • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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          2 months ago

          Yeah idk it's just so confusing to me and then I'm like really in my head all the time so I'm always trying to figure things out. I should be CWing these things though I'm sorry

          • Thallo [love/loves]
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            2 months ago

            like really in my head all the time

            Yeah, I've been there

            No need to apologize so much! I think you're a bit frazzled, but you're perfect meow-hug

        • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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          2 months ago

          Sorry I didn't answer your question. It'salnost certainly just a perception I have. Everyone deals with different difficulties when it comes to being trans. I def have it easier than many others.

    • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]
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      2 months ago

      Yeah exactly. Like, idk maybe it's just where I am in my transition or whatever but I feel so in the middle. My boobs are looking good though lol.