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  • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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    4 months ago
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    In the end I was just an insecure kid who was afraid of male expectations.

    I feel like a cis person would just accept toxic masculinity is bad and they don't have to be that way.

    I'm around cis men a lot to me it seems that for them "getting your life together" mostly means getting swole and getting a better paying job and maybe building a social circle of people you hang out with regularly.

    That is definitely, 100%, what they mean.

    Also people reading that experience and thinking that's what being trans is makes my brain hurt a lot.