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  • buh [she/her]
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    5 days ago

    has anyone else had a friend a long time ago you maybe had a crush on but you never really explored those feelings because it would have been gay or weird or whatever but thinking back you probably really did have a crush on them?

    • comrade_rain [she/her]
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      4 days ago

      Ish

      One of my good male friends from highschool had a crush on me. He came out as bi about a year ago.

      I came out as trans about a year later.

      Now our relationship is one of deep mutual love. We live in different states and both are in relationships with women (him with a trans woman, me with a cis woman). So the love is platonic rather than romantic.

      So he crushed on me and that helped me realize I'm happier as a woman. And he realized he was bi.

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      5 days ago

      There was this boy in highschool with terrible stringy hair who I was big into but never did anything about? In retrospect though that "boy" was probably an egg lmao

    • naom3 [she/her]
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      4 days ago

      Yes. It gets really fun when you stay friends and eventually realize you like them but you’re scared of making things weird and it’s also continuously complicated by gender stuff on your part