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  • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]
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    2 months ago

    yeah, this is why i need to Perfectly Understand My Gender As Soon As Possible, so that I know I'm making the right decision.

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      kel-what But surely there's no pressure, and you can take your time deciding how you feel about it, right?

      • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]
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        2 months ago

        yeah i decided on the 1-3 year option in a nearby city (that i used to live in lol, so at least i know it well) instead of flying across the country for the less than a year option, which came with a bunch of caveats like i have to get electrolysis done etc.

        ...this post is an opsec failure

        • ashinadash [she/her]
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          2 months ago

          I couldn't dox you fwiw ✨ also caveats suck, death to the medicalisation of trans people under this system.

          • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]
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            2 months ago

            Thats a relief that at least (although I'm not concerned about anyone posting in bear site in this regard, come visit, but it IS a public forum), but it will be nice to be nearby and not have to fly for the appointments and surgery, even if it does take longer and I have to get hair removal.

          • rtstragedy [fae/faer, she/her]
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            2 months ago

            Oh but I guess at least I dont have to pay anything! That's an improvement over years ago when I started transition