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  • rtstragedy [she/her]
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    6 days ago

    It depends for me, I can mix it up a little but I tend to gravitate to black lol

    it goes with everything! it gives nice contrast with my skin tone! it's slimming! it makes me look slightly mysterious! i agree, although i also have a fondness for coloured tights, you'll probably just catch me wearing dark fall colours with those though.

    Keep saying it to yourself when you start to worry. If you observe people when out, you'll notice they'll just go about doing their own thing without really looking around them at other people, rarely do you get people observing the people they're more looking at the shelves and such.

    would you believe i'm 15 years into transition, have a job where i need to be extremely social, and yet still haven't solved this problem? i will try your approach! (I observe people a LOT, i am unfortunately prone to staring...)

    I take sweat over the sun lol I also love the colder weather to the point where I can wear thin leggings in -20C weather and not have it affect me. I used to sleep with my window open in the winter too lol

    YES i love winter, although i do have to bundle up for it, i'd rather be cold than hot since i can always put on more clothes and be cozier, but in summer i feel less cozy with bare skin

    • magi [null/void]
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      6 days ago

      I sometimes mix in a little bit of colour too just to break up the black lol

      15 years into transition

      A bit ahead of me ^^

      i am unfortunately prone to staring...

      Yeah I was aware I can stare so I tend to change what I'm looking at a bit more frequently.

      YES i love winter

      Same, though I'm pretty warm blooded so I can counter the cold naturally, I'm like a radiator lol

      • rtstragedy [she/her]
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        5 days ago

        I sometimes mix in a little bit of colour too just to break up the black lol

        sick yeah if you wear mostly black adding a little bit of colour really makes it pop, looks ultra-deliberate and very chic knight-nod

        Same, though I'm pretty warm blooded so I can counter the cold naturally, I'm like a radiator lol

        this seems like it would have a lot of benefits. i am totally the opposite lol i get cold so easy even in summer (maybe due to good AC or maybe cold floor?) (still love winter the best tho), and partner is warm, so i sometimes put my hands under his shirt to warm them up which he uh tolerates

        • magi [null/void]
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          5 days ago

          yeah I tend to usr scaces and such for the colour

          My wife basically uses me as a radiator lol which I enjoy because im always roasting and I enjoy the cold feeling of cold hands or feet