agony-shivering LIKE SHUT THE FUCK UP, WHY ARE THEY FUCKING SIMPING FOR ME, THEY'VE INTERACTED WITH ME THREE TIMES AND THEY LITERALLY CALLED ME M'LADY TWO OF THOSE TIMES AND THE OTHER TIME IT WAS A COLD DM FROM A COMPLETE STRANGER

  • HornyOnMain
    hexagon
    ·
    1 year ago

    Also someone called me transphobic for saying I wouldn't want to date a chaser

    • alycat [she/her, comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      Wtf, I just saw that comment. I thought the transphobia issue was just isolated to the old 196 post.

      CW: Transphobia spoiler

      It is presumptuous to think that you speak for the trans community as a whole

      You may have a distaste for verbiage

      In essence, your take on what is and isn’t phobic, is in and of itself, phobic.

      Show

      I'm going to report it to see if anything actually happens. You never said you spoke for all of the trans community, and the person replying to you seems to think they are allowed to

      Edit: It actually got removed, I don't see it anymore

      • SuperNovaCouchGuy2 [any]
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        1 year ago

        Literally vaushites explaining why not wanting to date abusive psychos makes you transphobic: morshupls

          • SuperNovaCouchGuy2 [any]
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            1 year ago

            I hate that creepy abusive libshit since we have to deal with his unending hordes of creepy sycophants.

            • GrouchyGrouse [he/him]
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              1 year ago

              My friend's band would sometimes have shows in the city V**sh is from so there is a chance, however small, that I shoved him in the pit a decade ago. I mean it probably never happened. But it would be funny if it did!

      • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        The wording seems to suggest that the v**shite accuser isn't calling them transphobic but "chaserphobic", but knew not to write it out like that because it would make more obvious how stupid and disgusting their assertion was

      • ratboy [they/them]
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        1 year ago

        Holy moly, that is such a garbage response lol. It just became very obvious to me in the past year or so just how much people will spew the most meaningless takes and try to pass it off as intelligent because they have a decent vocabulary. Just because you use the word "verbiage" does not mean that you know what you're talking about

      • citrussy_capybara [ze/hir]
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        1 year ago

        That specific reply user is also one of the most vocally upset about the admin defederating from lemmynsfw over CSAM concerns.

    • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      Again, every LGBT person I've met in the real world, including myself, hates "chasers". Trans women and trans men hate them, bisexual women hate them for trying to find a "unicorn", lesbians hate those clingy straight guys that think they can "convert" them, gay guys hate those straight women that always hang around and think they can make weird sexual jokes and think it's fine because they're gay.

      Me and my friends make jokes at the expense of these people all the time. Being pro chaser seems to be a terminally online phenomenon.

      • ElHexo
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        4 months ago

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    • eatmyass
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      1 year ago

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    • UmbraVivi [he/him, she/her]
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      1 year ago

      It's a new age m'lady.

      Back in the day, redditors used m'lady to be condescending towards cis women and be their cringey idea of "classy" alongside wearing a fedora. That kind of thing is pretty dead.

      Nowadays, chasers say m'lady to virtue signal to trans girls that they see them as their real gender. This is all the rage rn, I see it all the time from trans girl reply guys. Same vibe of "look i'm showing you basic courtesy now will you show me your tits" though. Also kind of an uncomfortable indirect emphasis on someone's trans-ness if that makes sense.

    • ShimmeringKoi [comrade/them]
      ·
      1 year ago

      I just saw an unironic "checkmate, epithet" in the year of our lord 2023, ao anything is possible

    • HornyOnMain
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      For additional context, they saw my post where I was jokingly referred to myself as Lady HornyOnMain and then they referred to me like that in other threads

  • LiberalSoCalist@lemm.ee
    ·
    1 year ago

    When they were just on Reddit, 196 seeming to be a community of mostly children at times being encouraged to be horny and fetishize trans folk was at least a bit yikes which is why I never engaged with them.

    HB jokes about the volcel vanguard a lot, but there's a kernel of truth for how much less horny this instance is which is good for discouraging chaser behavior.

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
      ·
      1 year ago

      volcel police is a joke with a point. I keep it up to try to keep the horny posting limited to one or two comments. Ace comrades have expressed unease with hornyposting in the past, so, volcel police.

      • VOLCEL_POLICE [it/its]B
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        1 year ago

        Show

        The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

        نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

        volcel-police

      • Ram_The_Manparts [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        I also appreciate that it's kept to a minimum because I'm old enough I could be a lot of the users here's dad lol

    • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]
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      1 year ago

      There was a lot of chaser stuff on the old subreddit which always I always found kind of gross even as a non-trans person. Plus a lot of people who were very horny for like AOC and Tulsi Gabbard.

      There's a reason that the volcel police bit was developed over there, and a lot of that shit has gotten purged over here over time

      • eatmyass
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        1 year ago

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      • VOLCEL_POLICE [it/its]B
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        1 year ago

        Show

        The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

        نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

        volcel-police

      • GrouchyGrouse [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        Especially because we might have minors lurking or posting. I do like the joke but I also think it is good and correct. The internet is so full of horny shit anyway. It's not like we need to add to the pile.

    • AbbysMuscles [she/her]
      ·
      1 year ago

      Oh fuck that'd be great. Does anyone want to go undercover and get one going over there?

  • CriticalResist8 [he/him]
    ·
    1 year ago

    The only two instances one needs is lemmygrad and hexbear. In whichever order they prefer.

  • kristina [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    yea this is why its important we have trans supportive spaces, not chaser spaces

  • Łumało [he/him]@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    Holy fucking shit this is disgusting, you sure you want to keep that alt? Most of the users blahaj has belong in 196 and are most are probably :funny-clown-hammer: fans

    • HornyOnMain
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      Ngl, increasingly considering deleting the account already

  • bigmonkey [they/them]
    ·
    1 year ago

    Since we're defed now, would it be against the rules to name and shame this creep?

    • HornyOnMain
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      I'm pretty sure they're a kid so I decided against including screenshots or anything, if they keep it up I'll just block and report them

      • bigmonkey [they/them]
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        1 year ago

        Fair enough, though might be a good idea to report sooner than later. If they are a kid then maybe they'll learn something from it. Actually, the blahaj mods would probably take their side kitty-cri-screm

        • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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          1 year ago

          Based on their record, the mods would DM them, accept any excuse, and do nothing further.

          • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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            1 year ago

            They already argued with the admin before with some really fucked up argument (it involves CSA).

  • Twink
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    1 year ago

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    • HornyOnMain
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      Idk, on one hand it was pretty uncomfortable but like ig since they seem to just be a child based on their profile I feel like they should maybe just get a telling off and allowed to realise that it wasn't appropriate rather than just an outright ban. If they're an adult though just ban them on the spot imo.

      Also please could you remove the image with their username in, I purposely left it out of the post to avoid people harassing them because again, there's no way anyone old enough to buy alcohol unironically calls themselves a vaushite and acts the way they did, and I wouldn't want to risk the chance of hexbears being horrible to them.

        • HornyOnMain
          hexagon
          ·
          1 year ago

          Thanks <3

          I'd hope that hexbear users can be trusted not to do something like that but I just wanted to make sure

      • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        They personally would probably fair better with being banned. Maybe they'll be encouraged to take a walk outside or something.

    • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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      1 year ago

      One time someone called me Ma'am and then when I stood up from stocking the lower shelf and turned around to face her she looked absolutely mortified but it was kinda half wholesome and half vaguely transphobic.