I thought we should do a welcome post for our new trans posters! We're all excited to have you all here cat-trans

Let me direct you first to the trans mega, it's a very cozy place for trans people to post and you don't necessarily have to post about being trans there (though of course there is lot of gender happening in there at all times!) doggirl-thumbsup

For an even more relaxed and chat-based setting, there's Tracha, aka our Matrix-based chat. Read the rentry for more information!

Finally, if you use pronouns that are not yet available to be selected, please DM the site admins and they are very happy to help! My own pronouns (ze/zir) weren't on the site till I asked for them.

We hope you all have fun and enjoy the community here! lea-bounce

  • Siobhan [she/her, love/loves]
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    3 hours ago

    (apologies in advance for vent/language) I am almost 50. Transitioning is a relatively recent thing. I spent years on Twitter. Last month I left for what I thought would be bluer, safer skies. Then the pedo apologist came and was allowed to stay, even after explicitly stating he was intent on making life hell for us. I'm tired. I'm just fucking tired. And then someone told me about this place. After just over a day, I'm loving it. But, being frank, I'm still a touch wary . But the energy is.....hopeful? Make sense?

  • Inki [she/her]
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    7 hours ago

    Hiya! Excited to be here. Seems really nice so far

  • char_deferred [she/her]
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    12 hours ago

    I'm in the process of trying to familiarize myself with this place. I attempted to join the group chat, but can't seem to get it to work. I get an error message.

    • AshenWolf [she/her]M
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      11 hours ago

      I'll send you an invite and see if that works!

      Edit: Forgot that I switched accounts and no longer have mod permissions. I'll get it to work!

          • char_deferred [she/her]
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            11 hours ago

            It looks like the invite worked. I’m not getting the error message and have some text that says loading pinned messages. However there might be an issue as nothing is loading. I’ll check again tomorrow. Thank you.

            • Hestia [she/her, love/loves]M
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              11 hours ago

              No problem. If you're new to matrix, you may need to verify your device before things show up. Also messages from before you joined will probably not show up

        • AshenWolf [she/her]M
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          11 hours ago

          Try DMing me on matrix. I'm @ashenwolf:matrix.org, it's also on my profile, and if you haven't gotten in yet I'll do what I can in the morning. There seems to be some sort of issue as of right now though.

          • char_deferred [she/her]
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            11 hours ago

            Thanks, I think you’re right about there being an issue. It looks like the invite worked, but nothing is loading at the moment.

  • RION [she/her]
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    17 hours ago

    Is that where all the new folks are coming from? Was there a recruitment drive or something?

    • oscardejarjayes [comrade/them]M
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      17 hours ago

      Bluesky is having some issues with a transphobe, so a relatively popular left-wing account posted about a partial move to Hexbear. That's my understanding, at least.

      https://hexbear.net/comment/5734947

      • RION [she/her]
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        17 hours ago

        Swag

        I mean not the transphobe stuff but swag that people are coming here

  • Carcharodonna [she/her]M
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    19 hours ago

    Also if it’s alright I’m real quickly gonna plug https://hexbear.net/c/howdy here which is a comm for introducing yourself (but only if you’re comfortable doing so of course). transshork-happy

    • khizuo [ze/zir]
      hexagon
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      19 hours ago

      Ty for the plug! Honestly I've never made an intro post myself...

      • Carcharodonna [she/her]M
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        19 hours ago

        Well, you’re always welcome to of course if you ever feel up to it. Also ty for making this post btw. catgirl-heart

  • AshenWolf [she/her]M
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    19 hours ago

    Welcome everyone! I wanted to add that there's a thread for general help, PSAs, resources, and surveys here: https://hexbear.net/post/3016455.