not wanting to date trans women stems from y’all not viewing them as “real” women... so yes your “preference” is transphobic.— destiny (@MAM1SHAMPOO) July 1, 2020
If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it's time for some introspection.
What if they just don't have any interest in a penis sexually?
I mean... why isn't that fine?
I mean sure you could say it's transphobic to categorically deny wanting to have sex with a transwoman, but isn't it then also misogynist to categorically refuse sex with women? Are gay men misogynists cateogircally? I don't think that holds true. I don't think we can condemn someone as bigoted based on their libido.
Like unless it's a person who normally doesn't have genital preferences (Like a bisexual like myself) who then specifically rejects trans people, I can't agree with your analysis.
This isn't really a personal thing for me though, as I am neither trans, nor do I have a problem with having sex with trans women or trans men, and I might be missing something.
I just meant general feminine characteristics, arbitrary as they may be. Obviously there are very attractive trans women but conventional femininity seems to be somewhat harder to attain than for cis women. And that as a result of that, there might not be a lot of trans women you meet that appeal to those preferences.
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What if they just don't have any interest in a penis sexually? I mean... why isn't that fine? I mean sure you could say it's transphobic to categorically deny wanting to have sex with a transwoman, but isn't it then also misogynist to categorically refuse sex with women? Are gay men misogynists cateogircally? I don't think that holds true. I don't think we can condemn someone as bigoted based on their libido. Like unless it's a person who normally doesn't have genital preferences (Like a bisexual like myself) who then specifically rejects trans people, I can't agree with your analysis.
This isn't really a personal thing for me though, as I am neither trans, nor do I have a problem with having sex with trans women or trans men, and I might be missing something.
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So everyone that hasn’t yet dated a trans girl is transphobic?
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Yes I agree with that but is it wrong to say that you are less likely to be attracted to a trans girl than a cis girl due to various preferences?
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I just meant general feminine characteristics, arbitrary as they may be. Obviously there are very attractive trans women but conventional femininity seems to be somewhat harder to attain than for cis women. And that as a result of that, there might not be a lot of trans women you meet that appeal to those preferences.
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this is so disgusting. mods?
Begone troll