I made another post asking if I would be comfortable being obviously trans at the ren faire and it went better than I ever dreamed! A little boy asked me if I was a goddess and tons of people complimented me—some eve in non-performative ways!
I felt amazing and really comfortable in my body in a way I almost never do when I'm in public (except when I'm a bit tipsy AND dancing).
fuck yes! in my experience the ren faire is the most natural place to be a queer nerd other than an actual anime convention or an art school campus.