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    • ChapoBapo [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Please don't. This is a super weird and awkward situation someone put you in and it's not your fault that happened.

    • emizeko [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      pls don't, there's still connection out there to be found

        • 11000 [none/use name]
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          4 years ago

          Hey comrade I am autistic too and was like that. Then I met my current boyfriend who is also on the spectrum. We just clicked and it's been smooth sailing ever since. We are on the same wavelength about most things and there is no awkward misinterpretations going on. Have hope man you can find someone too.

            • 11000 [none/use name]
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              4 years ago

              Well you have just made one. Keep fighting man it's hard being like us in a world that is not set up for us but we can thrive given the right environment. I'm sorry you had to deal with rejection and a confusing new social situation on top of each other those two things always send me into a spiral of misery.

        • emizeko [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          being friends with someone you don't find attractive and building skills might help to work on those fears

        • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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          4 years ago

          'it never even began for me' is an Incel phrase. Have you visited those sites? No shame in it - we've all had our bad phases.

          • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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            4 years ago

            harangue about "incel logic" does the opposite of what you're trying to do. you don't help socially isolated people by encouraging them to view their despair about isolation as a moral failing.

            • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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              4 years ago

              I was just asking him if he'd visited them because if he has, I also have experience there. Means I can help better - speak in terms that someone is familiar with.

            • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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              4 years ago

              Yeah, me too lol. Chapo replaced braincels for me - just a niche ingroup that's terminally online.

              But it seems like you should be fine - mentalcel is volcel as they all used to say. Lets be real, if you're hot, you don't need to have mad chat up skills. Looksmax like mad.

              There's hope yet

    • ant9 [he/him,comrade/them]
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      4 years ago

      oh that's easy

      you get upset over this

      you realize she's probably a toxic person anyway

      you go find someone else

      after a long happy life you die in your sleep. :)