Your girlfriend is very real and very pretty :)

I also have decided to keep mine. I mean specifically women who expect me to manhandle them, do all the initiating, while not making me feel pretty or safe. I'm happy to top, but I won't do it if its the expectation.

imo anyone who expects a trans woman to top them based on no information other than their genitals doesn't have the understanding or sensitivity necessary to hook up with us, let alone date us.