CW FOR MENTIONS OF CHILD ABUSE [MENTAL, SEXUAL, AND PHYSICAL] AND CHILD DEATH


Wanted to make a post about the Troubled Teen Industry/#BreakingCodeSilence. The topic is gaining more discussion lately after celebrities like Paris Hilton spoke up, but many people still don’t know about it. American leftists must learn about this industry and advocate against it when possible.

I am not going to specify which one for internet safety reasons, but I have been sent to one of these so-called “therapeutic boarding schools” when I was younger. Therapeutic is a joke of a word to use here: there is hardly any therapy that isn’t just berating yourself and others around you. I'd be willing to explain more about my own situation if anyone is curious.

Who gets sent to places like these? It depends. Some of the girls there were suffering from drug addiction, misbehaviour at school, underage sex, being obviously Autistic, not obeying their parents rules 100%, or speaking out about being abused. Kids have been sent to these places for such miniscule things that I would hardly recommend a child see a therapist for let alone be sent away and locked up.

To start, I want to tell you how many children are kidnapped in the middle of the night. Parents hire escorts/transporters, and they come into the child’s room at 3am, and say, “We can do this the easy way or the hard way.” The hard way meaning restrained and handcuffed. They take you from your house and either drive you to the middle of nowhere or take you on a plane to the middle of nowhere. It’s a terrifying experience.

Most kids start out in wilderness programs. Advertised as a way for the child to detox from the outside world and reconnect with themselves and nature. You’re in the middle of nowhere as a child and that is scary enough regardless of how you are treated there. And most programs treat the kids badly. Kids are sleep deprived, barely given enough food, and sometimes only get to bathe once every week or so. There’s been quite a few kids who have died in these programs. I have not so much experience with wilderness, but it’s something I would never recommend.

And when kids think they’re going home once their wilderness program ends, they actually get sent to RTC/TBS (residential treatment centers/therapeutic boarding school). Hardly anyone just goes to wilderness. And this is where things get worse. Every program has its own unique horrors, but almost all of them have extremely cruel rules, forced child labour, allegations of sexual abuse, unsafe restraintment, solitary confinement, and untrained staff. Some programs have you sit and stare at a wall all day long. If you start to slouch, you have to stare for more hours. If you dare look away for even a second, you get points taken away. Points is the only way you can “advance” to the next levels to hopefully graduate the program eventually. Some programs make it so you are not allowed to talk to anyone for weeks on end. Some programs have solitary confinement. You have no privacy as you can never be alone. Not even while showering. If you act up (which can mean just looking out a window), you face the risk of being pinned down and restrained by adults twice your size. There have been many kids who died from these restraint practices which are known to be dangerous. Staff is hardly ever trained or licensed to be working in these types of places.

There are seminars that some programs do. This “therapy” tends to entirely revolve around making you believe everything in the world is your fault. Your parents aren’t at fault for anything. You are the problem. You have to take responsibility. You are a bad kid who is manipulative and will die once you leave the school. You have to write to your parents about how you are a horrible person and confess to everything bad you’ve ever done. You have to tell the girls around you how they are bad, manipulative, deserve to be raped, and will die once they leave this school too. That is no exaggeration. Those are things I have had to say to other girls around me. No child should hear that, and no person should carry the guilt for being forced to victim blame their peers.

Anyways, I could go on forever about the abuse in these programs. If you want to hear from more survivors, you can listen to the podcast Inside The Program. Or watch Paris Hilton’s documentary on Youtube. Or listen to TrueAnon’s 100th episode on the TTI, Brat Camp .

But you know what it all comes down to, in the end? Capitalism. These programs are expensive. It varies but usually like $3000-5000 per month, and you must stay for at least a year. One really popular program is $11,000 per month. I’ve known people whose parents went into debt to keep their kid locked up and abused because the programs are so good at brainwashing and convincing parents their kids will die if they leave. The staff isn’t always paid very well either, so most of the money ends up going to the people who own these schools. They rely on kids being punished so often that they keep you locked away to get your parents’ money. And they get you there in the first place by providing kickback money to Wilderness programs to convince the parents that you MUST go to one of these programs. And both of them give kickback money to therapists to recommend any of this shit in the first place.

Here’s some insight on the money aspect:

“A research brief from the University of Utah’s Kem C. Gardner Policy Institute estimated the industry pulled in $328 million in revenue in 2015 alone and accounted for 6,400 jobs. Alaska spent more than $31 million in Medicaid funding over six years sending 511 kids to Utah. Nevada spent even more — $35 million since 2014 — sending 761 youths here, according to its Medicaid data. The St. George school had received more than $13 million in government money from six states until it closed last year after a riot.”

Yeah, so not only is America’s health insurance system terrible in every other manner, but also your tax dollars are going towards sending kids to be abused instead of providing everyone universal healthcare and good mental health services.

Politics is involved too of course. The founder of WWASP schools donates thousands of dollars to the republican party each year. Utah has had politicians be involved in these facilities. Many of these facilities don’t get inspected as often as they are meant to. Police are often aware that they should return runaways back to facilities no matter what abuse the kids say is happening there. Doctors around the facilities know to not listen to abuse allegations — and that’s for rare instances when these places actually let the kids have medical care.

Many of these programs that get shut down just get reopened under different names and “different leadership.” Usually the exact same people are still involved just behind-the-scenes. For example, Arizona Boys Ranch had a kid die there. It was the second death there, but this one got huge media Attention. 5 former staff members were indicted on child abuse and manslaughter charges, and 17 staff were put on a child abuse registry. All that happened was they changed their name right after.

And another child died there in 2020.

Anyways there’s so much more to add about all the behind the scenes stuff that goes on in this industry, more on the history, and more of the people who are involved that you probably know (like Dr. Phil). Will make a part 2 eventually o7

  • jack [he/him, comrade/them]
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    3 years ago

    Oh my god. I had no idea about any of this. Disgusting and shocking and yet so utterly believable.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Yep, one of those things that makes you go “I can’t believe this exists yet I 100% can believe it”

  • drhead [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Haven't read the post yet but I'm familiar with the troubled teen industry (not personally, but I've heard a lot about it before and it fills me with both terror and rage). Kidnapped for Christ is another good documentary to watch if it's available to you.

    Oh, right, I just remembered we can be mask off here. In a just world,

    spoiler

    these camps should be razed to the ground, and the people who run them hanged.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Yeah I try not to ever let revenge take hold on me a lot but these places really test me.

  • Grownbravy [they/them]
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    3 years ago

    What the fuck.

    Everything’s appalling and predatory, forcing parents to pay thousands, claiming their kid will die if they leave without “completing” a program, and somehow having a sterling reputation built on nothing?

    And the reality is these places are worse than prisons and almost have the same as cult-like abuses that happen within their private facilities. And everyone surrounding the facilities are in on it because they’re probably the single biggest thing bringing money into town.

    this is just falling down a staircase of horrific, broken neoliberal systems. And for what? Because you’re kid isnt living with the same abuse coping mechanism you mistake for maturity?

    Fucking incredible who people will scare parents by telling them “their future’s in jeopardy without us” and the blank check they get away with cashing because they balk at being accountable.

    • BeamBrain [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      [The owner] doesn't even need to show up anymore because the monsters he personally created are now overseeing his demented cult.

      We learned to size each other up, predict each other's schemes, mentally fuck with each other, stab one another in the back, work effectively with kids we hated, and viciously abuse the friends we secretly cared about.

      It really is capitalism in miniature.

    • MirrorMadness [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      if anyone is interested in this topic and wants a first-person perspective on the feeling of being at one of these prisons, I cannot recommend elan.school enough, it is just such a vivid and powerful depiction.

  • Uncle [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Lots and lots of this stuff in America. Parents pay handsomely to send their kids away to be tortured and abused. They come in all kinds of flavors. Gay conversion is another one of them.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Yep, a lot of these include people who are basically there for being gay too :(

    • Pezevenk [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      It's good that I never did the stupid mistake of telling my parents I am bisexual (and I almost did once...) because my dad talks every now and then about this "amazing" teen psychologist who apparently does conversion therapy, and he had a friend whose son "thought" he was gay (or possibly trans?) and he sent him to her, and now he is "cured" and even has a girlfriend!!11! I really, really fucking hate her.

      • Uncle [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        Dodged a fucking bullet there. Never tell your parents anything until you're 18.

        • Pezevenk [he/him]
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          3 years ago

          Yeah I really did... I almost told them when I was like 15 or so, we were having a really heated fight which started because I defended the right of homosexual people to... Idk be treated normally and have rights. It got really bad and they seemingly thought I had been "brainwashed" by gay teachers in my school (there was a teacher who was gay) or older gay kids or whatever. This actually lead to them taking me to a different school in the middle of the year. It was ridiculous. Now, I was already in a bad spot in terms of mental health because of isolation, being a bit awkward and kind of an outcast, dealing with growing up and also dealing with the self hatred due to internalised homophobia that I was just overcoming. But after that incident I remember I got extremely depressed and I don't think I really smiled for, like, a few months or something. New school mostly sucked too. Bunch of bougie idiots and narcissists for the most part. Then there was also other stuff which I won't get into and the result was that ages 16-17 for me are basically a blank. All I remember is that it was like wading through a void every day in pain with an ugly buzz in my head and going through motions mechanically, never experiencing any joy, like I was simply dragging my body around and putting it where I was supposed to, and everyone just pitying me. And that's how I learned homophobia is bad folks.

  • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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    3 years ago

    Every once in a while I get some dimwitted social worker (I'm a therapist who works with foster kids and kids with behavioral issues) who pulls out these brochures or knows of "a guy" who recommends a teenage runaway camp as a means to "help them"

    Even before I was more acutely aware of the extent of abuse that was going on in these camps, the idea of sending these kids 100s sometimes even thousands of miles away sounded like some cult shit that my kids really would not benefit from. These kids are barely coping with trauma and the last thing they need is to be ripped out of their support structures and dumped with a bunch of strangers let alone subjected to the horrors of one of these programs.

    I cussed out a social worker about a week and a half ago for trying to get me to sign off on sending one of the older kids to one.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Hey that’s amazing you’re speaking out against it when you can. If it gets even one less kid sent away, it’s worth it. Thank you <3

      • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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        3 years ago

        Its very frustrating to have to deal with these social workers, I can't even imagine what its like in states with even worse foster care systems like Texas or Utah

      • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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        3 years ago

        I don't believe so, I think its just sheer ignorance and stupidity, it doesn't happen often but it happened enough that I got annoyed

  • Freethenip [none/use name]
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    3 years ago

    My brother went to one of these wilderness camps and the horror stories are almost too sickening to believe. They were forced to drink dirty brown water with bugs swimming around inside of it from the same troughs as animals. A boy in his group was raped by another who convinced him to try to escape with him and then turned on him as soon as they were alone. These kids were abused and had no resources to defend themselves from abuse and isolation. There were kids who had murdered others camping in the same camp with kids who were there for smoking weed. My brother still hasn’t forgiven my parents more than 5 years later.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      I’m sorry he went through that. I hope he’s doing alright <3

  • Wertheimer [any]
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    3 years ago

    Lots of differences, I recognize, but this sounds like American versions of the Magdalen laundries, the most American thing about them being how expensive they are.

  • PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS [he/him, they/them]
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    3 years ago

    Just wanted to recommend this absolutely amazing and harrowing webcomic by a survivor of one of these places: https://elan.school/rude-awakening/

  • VernetheJules [they/them]
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    3 years ago

    Damn I totally forgot about these. I remember finding out about them through the troubleteens subreddit years ago though. Sounded absolutely horrifying. The jailers are usually failed cops/military etc. right?

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      I would say there’s a lot of overlap there but it all depends on the facility

    • Poison_Ivy [comrade/them]
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      3 years ago

      The jailers are usually failed cops/military etc. right?

      Sometimes some of them are former "graduates" of the program who find employment in the programs they "graduated" from

  • ElChapoDeChapo [he/him, comrade/them]
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    3 years ago

    Thank you for sharing and for the informative post as usual.

    No matter how evil we each may know amerikkka and capitalism to be, there is always another layer to this hell.

    Only together can we even hope to see the whole tapestry of horrors, let alone end this nightmare forever.

  • AngusMcAnus [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    Thank you for posting this. I encourage everyone to listen to that TrueAnon episode, because Brace actually is a survivor of this shit and knows what he's talking about.

  • TankieDukakis [none/use name]
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    3 years ago

    I worked with a student who was sent to Hephzibah House.

    I worked at a residential treatment facility. Parents who ship off their kids because they don't want to deal with them should be shot. I'm sure there are some cases where this is necessary, but for the most part, the kids there were fine if you knew how to work with them. But that took a lot of work.

    It pisses me off just to think about it.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Some of the parents are well-meaning. It’s hard cause I do want to be mad at every parent for their decision, but I know how good the programs are at portraying themselves as good and brainwashing parents.

      • TankieDukakis [none/use name]
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        3 years ago

        Idk. Guess it depends on the parents.

        The ones I worked with were shit. They adopted these kids, sometimes for money, sometimes to look good in their community. Then when the kid has trouble adjusting because, I don't know they've been through some shit, they ship them off and make the problems soooo much worse.

        Added on they're shit parents themselves and don't feel like dealing with it.

        • rozako [she/her]
          hexagon
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          3 years ago

          some of these programs I’ve heard from other survivors especially target adopted kids in the program too :(

  • eduardog3000 [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    $3000 per month?! At least these programs are nowhere near available to the parents of probably 90% of kids. Even if they are taking on debt, most people still wouldn't be able to pay for more than a few months.

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      some of it gets covered by insurance usually which sadly makes it more available :(

      edit: i’d also add that $3000/month is rather low for more of the most popular programs

    • rozako [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Take your time, it’s a heavy reading ❤️Thank you