(obviously this only applies if shaving actually aligns with your gender presentation goals etc etc, this is a self-image thing not a callout for people who don't want to or can't)

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  • Llituro [he/him, they/them]
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    1 year ago

    my vibe is that the last wedding i went to i had both the longest hair and the largest beard in the wedding party. (i trust that i don't care about my gender)

      • Llituro [he/him, they/them]
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        1 year ago

        well, i guess my approach to exploring gender has been to not cut any hair at all, but it's something i think about regularly because of all the social norms surrounding it. but yeah, i just want to participate