hagensfohawk [none/use name]

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Cake day: July 26th, 2020

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  • I think its unfair to burden a child with being a "theybe" (if you want to call it that) unless you are a part of a community which normalizes the practice.

    In the absence of such a community, I think the best thing to do is to try to avoid gendering the child as much as possible. Pick a gender neutral name (and favor use of name to pronoun), have gender neutral clothing, participate in wide variety of normally considered gendered activities, etc.

    Just my two cents. Not an expert or anything though.

    Edit: as I'm thinking about this more... Another thing is to also praise the child in a gender neutral way. If the child's sex is female, offer praise for their strength, etc. If child's sex is male, praise for their their gentleness, etc.






  • If you read the interview, Duncan said that he's the opposite of an expert in finance and hesitated even giving his opinion. His broad point is that in revolutions, a lot depends not on whether a state is strong, but weather the state is perceived as strong, ie confidence. When bankers become unsure of the stability of a government and fear loss of a loan, they can end up creating actual instability by withholding further credit.

    It's similar to a bank run. As long as depositers have trust in their bank, everything operates ok. If depositers are unsure of their safety of their deposit though, it creates a feedback loop in which some people withdrawing creates further distrust in the institution and stimulates additional withdrawal.