my new years resolution is to get gayer. i'm pretty satisfied with the level of trans i'm on, though i might get my gender legally changed. i do want to update my wardrobe a bit (my fashion sense has evolved since i first really did that post coming out) but money is very expensive

what are all of you hoping for this year?

  • WannabeBear [he/him, comrade/them]
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    11 months ago

    I think I'll be coming out fully at some point this year. Being closeted is far too distressing these days, so, even though I dread the process of coming out, I think it's going to be necessary in the very near future.

    I should be getting onto the top surgery waitlist in a week or two, which probably means I'll be on it for most of 2024 (and some or potentially all of 2025, too).

    Potentially I'll also be legally changing my name and gender too, we'll see.

    None of these things will be fun, but hopefully life afterwards will be more livable.