it's how she describes herself lmao

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  • EstraDoll [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    i have to stop myself from becoming too reddit trans but it's hard when i basically have no real trans people to talk to for 90% of the week so reddit memes are my only real way to interface with being trans

    • Cromalin [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      to be clear: there is nothing wrong with being reddit trans. people are annoyed about it becoming so big, but it's not like there's actually a problem with enjoying catgirl praise kink memes or whatever. do what brings you joy

      • EstraDoll [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        oh absolutely. i spent $22 on a pair of really nice thigh highs and they are worth every cent. I bought a whole case of pink monster energy too because it looked trans femme and don't regret that either

        • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
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          2 months ago

          Thigh highs are nice. Granted, the pair I got as a programming socks meme is the pair I wear the least. Mostly because avoiding attention at work while waiting stripped pink socks is probably harder, but wearing just regular solid colored socks under my pants means I don't have to feel my pants as much - its was extremely rare for me to wear pants except for dress code just because I dislike the texture.

          Anyways, reddit is what lead to me questioning my gender and I've spent plenty of time in places like egg and tra and I'm a weeb who'd definitely take being anime-cat-girl if that was a realistic option that wouldn't lead to social ostracization. And I've made programming socks joke elsewhere as well. OTOH, skirts kinda "meh" imo.

          I don't think sometimes making such jokes or liking certain things alone makes someone "reddit trans" when they can still have normal conversations and don't project their preferences onto others.

        • windowlicker [she/her]
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          2 months ago

          that new ruby red flavor of monster is not only my new favorite, but the can also has trans colors and has little cat faces on it. they knew what they were doing and i'm not ashamed to say it's working.