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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    2 months ago

    It feels like (anecdote time) just over the last five or so years, "they" as a neutral singular pronoun has gone from a fringe concept for assholes to bitch about grammarwise (and they sometimes still do) to a very commonplace word. I hear it in sloptube videos and stuff, even goofy gamer ones. Truly a banger bloomer

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        2 months ago

        Unfathomably based, ngl. I was only introduced to it like eight years ago at all...

        • QueerCommie [comrade/them, she/her]
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          2 months ago

          What would you have done if someone references a person and you want to refer to them without knowing their gender or similar cases? “He or she?”

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            2 months ago

            I probably used they-them to refer to unknown individuals, but honeslty back in middle school yeah, he or she. It was new to me at age 16.

    • naom3 [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      Almost as if singular “they” is a natural part of the english language that’s been around for centuries and all the people complaining about it were just transphobic soviet-hmm

    • Luna [she/her]
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      2 months ago

      Thank goodness a lot of people got over the "improper grammar" discourse, it would always piss me off when I saw many people making the same BS arguments.