autocorrect keeps wanting to make it "envy," which isn't entirely wrong

How did you figure out you were enby?

I've come to realize that my super-femme presentation is a form of masking, and I'm trying to figure out where I actually fall in the spectrum of gender.

So yeah, how did you figure out you weren't "gender" and were actually enby?

Does just thinking that maybe I'm not either mean that probably I'm not either? Is the state of being unsure and kinda in-between where you identify or what?

  • knightly [none/use any]
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    1 month ago

    I figured it out the hard way, guess-and-check.

    My first few years in the furry fandom were spent trying to find the fursona that adequately reflects "me". I very quickly discovered that the "traditional" male and female archetypes weren't a good fit, 'cuz I'm a weird inbetweener~