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Idk if anyone can relate to this, but on the topic of they/them pronouns for the longest time I used them alongside she/her, but I kind of realized I was only doing so because I couldn’t accept myself as a woman and as a way to endure the third-gendering cis people often inflict on binary trans people.
You should not get misgendered as a form of self harm, I will not allow it.
I use comrade/them because there is no other pronoun choice I'm comfortable with. I don't use it off the the bearsite. I would just put null/void because I'm agender but there is no option for that. They/Them has been used to try to misgender but They has been a non gendered word used in English language for a very long time too. she/her is aesthetic part of me or jiust old remnant or I'd use it so I don't have to talk about myself to third parties.
I default to they/them for most people until I know their pronouns and adjust accordingly.
Would you rather none/use name?
Would you rather I start using magi instead?
I dunno, Null/void would be my own choice but devoid of my own choice I don't really care anymore.
You... aren't devoid of a choice though? If I'm talking with someone about you, how should I do that?
Pick something to go in that blank
Or are you saying you would literally like me to say
? Whatever you want, it is simply important to me. I have been using she (because that's what I see Ash do), but I genuinely just want to use what makes you feel best/hate the least.
Honestly it is more when I have to look at it when it bothers me. My stickler would be English grammar denotes a name there in the blank but it's also because I don't think of gender too. I don't use she/her that much bar specifics.
Honestly I don't care use whatever is easy for you, it doesn't matter it's a label and so is ny username.
I have such a weird feeling about it because to me I'm not she/her I'm like she/her with a filter on top or something, it's like an adjacency. it's like a sub sandwhich compared to a 2 peices of sliced bread sandwhich. most people would say 'sandwhich' when talking about the food, but there's a qualitative difference
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the way I described it before to my wife was 'girl, but in a spooky font'
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Real, but at least I don’t want to really be a women, maybe partially.