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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.
Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an “immortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (
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After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.
When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.
What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.
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Yeah I have a hard time with reaching orgasm too. Less so when solo but with others I usually don't more often than I do. I don't think I would get frustrated with someone for that personally but that's easy to say from someone with no experience I guess
I feel like any kink can be deconstructed and if someone don't mesh with parts of the kink archetype, those parts can be negotiated out. It sounds like you like a lot about it so maybe it's just coming up with your own version to work with
This is all coming from my imagination. But I feel if I take on the role as a brat, I'd be testing the domme, to see if they're worthy. If they can't control me, then what business do they have domming me? I guess this turns the dynamic into a battle of wills instead of command/obey.
What does this mean? Like inside your head vs actually doing it?
That's a good way of putting it.
Waxplay is one of the only kinks I've actually done, and I did parafin. I didn't think it was too bad but this was also before I transitioned so my skin might be more sensitive now
Yeah it's fun! Thanks for sharing your own thoughts
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Im probably just being my overly-anxious self lol. Ive never tried to engage with this kink so lack of experience over here as well ^^
That makes sense ^^ idk its not my thing but i love hearing about it and what makes it appealing, and i think that sentence made it make (more) sense ^^
Re act-in/-out:
yeah, act-in fantasies are fantasies i dont want to actually play out. I might fantasize about them, write about them, etc., but i dont actually want to engage in them, either due to safety concerns or what have you. I have a fantasy about uh nonconsentual stuff that is strictly act in because it would be unsafe and just not enjoyable if it was acted out. Im also just still grappling with that fantasy existing in my head, the shame around it, and all of that.
Act out fantasies on the other hand are fantasies I want to act out and engage in ^^
One that toes the line between these two is a Domme having me collared and at her feet and putting out her cigarette on me. I feel like it is interacting with my SH mental processes and so Im reluctant to engage with it, plus it would scar which is something I may want in the moment but need to also want outside of the moment. So for now its an act in fantasy.
I didnt know we had this emote and it is perfect for this conversation ^^
Re safety: i tend to err on the side of safety. My body is not stable and can get fucked up in a "oh we should go to the hospital" kind of a way a bit easier than most people, so i can get real paranoid about people binding near my joints, or whipping me near cartilidge or connective tissues. Its led to a difficult session or two where the flogger wasnt fully controlled. Thankfully no injuries occurred but still a good reminder of risk awareness for me.
Ooh maybe I could ask about this (no pressure to respond!)
Like, how was the parafin? I have a pretty high tolerance for burning, especially if its combined with other sensation, but i was thinking to start with soy cause of anxiety around biting off more than I can chew.
Also, can you just use any candle?
Ofc!
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Feel this
I'm glad it did, hopefully my imagination isn't misleading about it lol
Oh yeah. I've definitely had thoughts like that before. Though personally I guess I didn't think of it as a fantasy but more of an unwanted intrusive thought. Maybe it's the same thing in this case.
The example makes sense. I can see how things that are desirable in the moment can be regrettable later.
Oh wow that's rough. Sorry if this is prying but is that some sort of HSD? My partner has EDS and their body has similar problems with joint and connective tissues
Paraffin didn't really bother me (pre-HRT so thicker skin) but if it is too hot, it's also possible to alter the temperature of the wax just by adjusting the drip height. I didn't have a problem from even close up though. I've never used soy so I can't comment on how that feels but I've read that it's oily? Paraffin clean up is a pain already, I can't imagine the mess from soy candles.
Nope! Don't use beeswax, it gets too hot and it can burn or blister.
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Its just hypermobility to my knoweledge, but I havent been to a doctor for it in many many years, so who knows. Short version is that I can dislocate things real easy, and in general have shitty connective tissues holding joints in place.
Ty!