Hi comrades, want to give you all an informal update on the discussions around the site's misogyny problems that've been happening over the last several days. I wanna make sure you know that the admin/mod team has seen all of that discourse and we've been actively discussing solutions in the matrix mod chat. We're taking this shit very seriously and acknowledge that we haven't used a heavy enough hand on misogynistic rhetoric. As some of you saw we nuked that cheating thread from a couple weeks ago and handed out temp bans to the most egregious offenders. Idk how that was allowed to run it's course but we apologize for that oversight. We're going to do better.
We've come up with some ideas for how to improve this part of the site culture and we want to get suggestions from y'all as well, since the alarm was sounded on this by our beautiful c/traa posters to begin with. Our ideas so far include:
-
A zero-tolerance policy towards any even remotely misogynistic/patriarchal posts or comments, as too much has slipped through the cracks on that, establishing a clear protocol for bans for violating rules against misogyny, and ideally tracking repeat offenders in a way that makes deciding a course of action easy when they reoffend.
-
Uphold TC69 thought by starting up a book club (and hopefully more to follow) on feminist theory and encouraging mass participation, particularly from the he/him's on the site. "The Will to Change" by bell hooks has been suggested by multiple people as a great starting point but please feel free to suggest any other works.
-
Relaunching /c/menby with a trusted educated mod team and a specific focus on countering mainstream narratives about masculinity, relationships and sex that breed reactionary, patriarchal attitudes
-
Encouraging [namely femme] participation in /c/womenby and taking steps to revitalize that sub as an excellent source of discussion on feminism and intersectionality
-
Holding another mod drive to get more folks into mod positions in our communities who can help weed out reactionary attitudes
-
Encouraging users to use the report button often on any post that seems even remotely sus, with the promise that no one's going to be punished for "report abuse" for reporting posts in obvious good faith
Please let me know your thoughts on the above or any other ideas you have for making the site better, safer and more inclusive for our femme comrades. Once we've fully hammered out plans and updated policy we plan to make an announcement post highlighting these changes for the whole userbase. Thank you all for being here and being who you are
Fantastic to hear! All points are great, and as a he/him the book club sounds fun and dearly needed, I'd love to participate.
One idea I had was a megathread safe space like what we have for the trans and EM/POC threads, would that be something people would want? I've seen lots of love for the megas from our comrades here, but I'm a he/him so I'm staying in my lane, lol. Just an idea I had and felt would be cool, with our current demographics there would obviously be overlap with the trans mega, but the benefit of maintaining a safe space free from he/hims in a megathread form seems like it would help
We have the best mods and admins, fantastic work!
Side note: if anyone has seen me say reactionary misogynistic garbage on this site please tell me so I can self-crit
deleted by creator
transfem enby here, hello. would be rad yes :3 love trans mega to bits obviously, but my identity tends to mean i feel like a bit of an outsider, even in trans circles, so i'd absolutely cherish the opportunity to bond over similar experiences.
Hehe fellow transfem enby here, I love how we kind of all just vibe in the trans mega, talking DS9 and stuff.
Why sad?
oh, you know how it is. the nigh unbearable burden of being fabulous
yissssss
Tbh according to the survey quite a lot of the trans people here aren't binary
yeah, it's nice :3 i just meant, like, historically speaking. i was hoping participating in a mega like that would maybe help w/ my brain being mean to me, basically
forever mourning the youth i didn't get to spend around my kind
a womenby mega would be super cool!
Yea, I think it provides a good buffer and "foothold" for people, I just want to let non-he/hims speak up on that and not try to steal the microphone
I think a c/womenby mega could be neat. Unity...
Would help round out the available megas! Maybe a c/neurodivergent one too, don't know what the demand is for that but it makes sense to me.