Here's to a new year! Here's my first mega try (also first time posting in a while due to reasons) but heya! Admittedly struggled a fair bit with self doubt and anxiety on this one as put it off for a while/other things caught up with me but I figure I'll be glad I did it once I've done it. It's kinda being done last minute though, so admittedly there's that...

I'd been intending to make the mega about something else originally when I signed up, but that would require more time on my part (and I just binge read this recently, so it all works out). Anyways, my subject of the week is The Summer Hikaru Died; it's a queer (BL) horror manga which is currently also scheduled for anime release next year (2025).

Content warnings naturally follow and further details will be spoilered.

CONTENT WARNINGS

Grief, body horror and (very debatably IMO) mild gore, supernatural horror (ghosts/"impurities", otherworldly entities), death I suppose though that one's a given

Premise

The titular Hikaru went for a walk in the woods, died, and something came back wearing his body, something that doesn't quite know how to be human or mortal; "Hikaru" returned, to ensure that his best friend, Yoshiki, would not be lonely. Romantic tension (and tension of a less pleasant kind) ensues.

The plot/things I like about it thus far (light spoilers)

Yoshiki and "Hikaru" have an absolutely great dynamic- their relationship may not be fully healthy, but their intentions seem to both be in the right place, as are their deep feelings (Yoshiki's for Hikaru and increasingly for "Hikaru," and Hikaru and "Hikaru's" own true feelings) and honesty in this regard, despite the latter "Hikaru" being effectively an imposter of sorts. (it's complicated, but these are increasingly distinguished separately and I really like that process as well)

"Hikaru" is, while not quite a blank slate, extremely new to the concept of even just "being" in the sense that mortal creatures and individual organisms(?) do. They've had to learn (and Yoshiki has had to confront them about) the value and significance of life and death; they've increasingly established boundaries, and they approach the world with a liveliness and curiousity that is really cute (the original Hikaru was also lively FWIW, but "Hikaru" is experiencing everything anew even if they retain the memories).

Yoshiki, on the other hand, is both grappling with his grief and loss of Hikaru, while finding comfort (and discomfort alike) in his imposter, and in guiding them through a new world or state of being. He's finding his resolve and moral/ethical backbone interacting with "Hikaru" (very blue-and-orange morality dynamics, though they're learning), he's experiencing what could be described as a rocky but determined romance and queer experimentation at the same time "Hikaru" is being introduced to notions of attraction and desire (beyond instinctual desire to consume).

Their pairing in so many ways should not work (or rather would be usually destined for a tragic end). From the start, there have been several points where by all means it should have met such an end. But their determination and willingness to meet the other where they're at and gradually be understanding with the other is both fascinating and something I'd feel optimistic for (and interested in seeing play out further).

Anyways, I should cut myself short at this (and make sure to have something properly written beforehand for next time). But anyways, thus far it's a strong recommend (if you feel alright with the content warnings) from me.

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  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    3 days ago
    incredibly nsfw, absolute filth, there ought to be a law

    lea-think Actually no, that's way too dirty to post, don't subject people to that.

    I will say though, seriously, even if you don't have any terms for your body that you like, (which is very understandable honestly) you should internally jettison all the bad and nasty and cisnormative terms from your brain. It helps, the difference is startling.

    On the one hand this shouldn't be surprising at all - like, of course automatically referring to myself and my body with terms in the framework of "man" is deeply unpleasant, right? But it takes a long time to dig that shit out, so I hadn't really. My internal monologue and thought processes would just kinda stop whenever certain subjects came up... but now it's like Well, my brain is so much goddamn happier not selecting from a vocabulary of terms that pigeonholes my body as "male". Seriously, thank fuck! catgirl-heart

    I know not everyone puts that much stock into terminology, and if the standard issue terms work then don't let anyone stop you brandishing them. If you find things distressing the way I did though, you should consider some alternatives.

    (Yes I know this is like the fifth time I post about this, but the good vibes from it continue to surprise me)

    • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]
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      3 days ago

      waow-based

      related, kinda nsfw, body part terminology

      Using some trans femme/enby slang terms for body parts has been really a noticeable improvement for me mentally not feeling gross about myself in a lewd setting

      (sorry if weird but I adore the term "hen" for uh, that body part for a not-guy and think it's rly cute) chicken-bop

      ((also "þussy" as thussy)) hexbear-non-binary

      sorry if weird or tmi

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        3 days ago
        lfg

        I'm a big fan of EVERY cool alternate trans term for any body part honestly, it can be a little weird but I dig hearing about em. I'm not cool enough to use rad ones like "hen" or "aubergine" but fuck yeah! It's startling to me how much of cisnormativity is rooted in the language we use...

        "þussy"

        I snorted lol, awesome

          • ashinadash [she/her]
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            2 days ago

            catgirl-huh

            This is kind of weird gross but I don't think any less of you for it. I... just... why... I do not relate to this post. I would not. You can do it if it makes you happy though tbh. If not then uh, stop that!

            • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]
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              2 days ago

              ohnoes

              I didn't reply after your comment that was spoilered "lfg" btw and no jury could convict me and I wouldn't reveal any details of the non-existent comment if you ripped all my fingernails off jfc what is wrong with me, I'm so sorryAAAAAAA sorry for being weird and cringe

              • ashinadash [she/her]
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                2 days ago

                Well now I can't even look again kel-sad

                I guess my main problem was I couldn't discern tone, you had a couple different cw's on there to the point I couldn't really tell what I'm meant to feel? Some of the subject matter also doesn't seem that pleasant to me... It was a weird post but "cringe" was the furthest thing from my mind when reading it, I apologise, I'm sorry. You shouldn't feel bad over it...

                  • ashinadash [she/her]
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                    2 days ago
                    spoiler

                    The tongue-in-cheek-evopsych thing is throwing me for a loop, which is for sure down to my being autistic but I'm sorry I reacted in a way that made you feel bad.

                    "hey queer/not-cis ppl have existed throughout human history across a ton of recorded cultures and presumably through pre-history of hominids, and like, we're still here?" So we must serve some kinda evolutionary advantage as a social species, and I think I kinda went off the deep end extrapolating that uh, reproductively a bit

                    So like a biological justification thing, okay. I mean I guess, does every behaviour and thing about a species serve and evolutionary purpose? Is that a Darwinian thing? Doesn't help that "reproductive" matters are maximum squick for me, so my thought capacity is low. I do remember things along this line from the image board though, it felt like "appealing to science" or whatever for a grounded, INDISPUTABLE reason (of science) for our existence would put us on equal validity footing with cis people. Bonus points if you have dysphoria around like, conception, pregnancy, reproduction generally.

                    "um actually non-cis ppl are the most attractive

                    Yes, they are, I would not date a cis person and they are useless to me romantically. End of story madeline-stare What about that huh, what then? I am trans because that is how I am and it's rad, I am t4t because cisgender people are A) cowards and B) less cool, and it's rad. It's evolutionarily advantageous because I'm not cis, which would be the real cringe.

                    If you're wasted that does make sense, but otherwise it's fine, y'know. You didn't have to explain yourself to me although I do appreciate the insight. You are not being cringe and I'm sorry I made you feel like you are. I'm not trying to socially ostracise you over your hangups...

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      2 days ago
      spoiler

      I hate not having vocabulary madeline-sadeline And trying to replaces words with "nothing lmao" isn't easy either :/ It is psychic damage though I need to stop

      • ashinadash [she/her]
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        2 days ago
        spoiler

        Yeah, it's harder to rename when you hate it sadness Would be useful if there was some kinda neutral term lacking connotations but nothing comes to my goofy brain....