if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have
same goes double for the word guy.
bonus: getting called bro by another trans woman and getting explained how that's a gender neutral term when you're a gamer
bro is the most gendered term! why are people like this?
They say bro so much that their speech is just like bro bro bro bro, we should call them brobrorians or something
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