if you call everyone dude and a transfem person gets mad about it, don't get defensive. just say like "sorry, i won't do it again" and don't argue "actually it's gender neutral" or "i call everyone dude". even if you do, i guarantee she's heard that argument from someone who very much does not call people they see as women dude. i certainly have
same goes double for the word guy.
all californians will be sent to re-education for being irritating as fuck about this
Surfers:
Hawaiian surfers are absolute chads, the surfers in california just need some aloha spirit beat into their bones
I wouldn't know, I've never been to any US state.
Good to know if I'm ever near Hawaii though.
Hawaii would be so awesome if we could kick out the Mormons and millionaires
Only after the east coast is reeducated that being stressed and angry is not a quirky regional culture and midwesterners stop presenting alternating layers of ranch and sour cream as “local cuisine”