I'm too headache to think about this rn but its uhhhhh dunk-worthy if anyone wants to get in there

  • IMF_DOOM [she/her, undecided]
    hexbear
    71
    3 months ago

    reddit is a fucking poison on the internet and i resent all the redditors that came to lemmy, took a massive shit on the floor and then blamed us for trying to clean it up. normal bigots will at least be honest about their bigotry, these mfs will be openly bigoted, you'll call them out on it and then they'll call you cisphobic or something and act like the "wokescolds" are trying to send them to the pronoun gulags or something

  • yuli [she/her]
    hexbear
    58
    3 months ago

    that faux-equality shit they pull where men/women, white/black, cis/trans etc. are all presumed equal and it’s just individuals that display “in-group biases” and really it’s the poor white men that get all the backlash because of woke or some shit is so tiring, you just can’t get through to them.

    This is news to me because I have been condescended to exponentially more as a decently passing white trans woman by cis white men in particular than I ever was before transition by ANYONE.

    However, your anecdotal experience is just that. I have been subject to exponentially more racist abuse from black individuals than from individuals of any other race.

    cracker

    • TechnoUnionTypeBeat [he/him, they/them]
      hexbear
      47
      3 months ago

      I have been subject to exponentially more racist abuse from black individuals than from individuals of any other race

      Funny, I'm white and never experienced racist abuse from anyone

      Maybe this individual should consider curbing his cracket behaviour and people might be nicer to them

      • ProfessorOwl_PhD [any]
        hexbear
        9
        3 months ago

        I'm white and the only racist abuse I've received is from other white people who assumed I was the wrong kind of white.

    • kristina [she/her]
      hexbear
      45
      edit-2
      3 months ago

      im so fucking glad hexbear got rid of downvotes. you can see it here that its just a tool to harass minorities that you dont like

      • Black Charlie White@lemmygrad.ml
        hexbear
        6
        3 months ago

        negl I didn't really get why y'all did it at first but I'm kinda coming around to the concept. Some days I genuinely just don't have the spoons to go to the soap box with y'all; but ig today I woke up and chose the snowgrave route

    • PKMKII [none/use name]
      hexbear
      37
      3 months ago

      Man I’m sure all those times, all three of them, he was called a cracker by a black person, really interfered with his ability to get a home loan or be considered for a promotion.

      • yuli [she/her]
        hexbear
        36
        3 months ago

        every time i try to explain to black people that systemic racism doesn’t exist, they keep calling me a cracker!! boohoo

      • Adkml [he/him]
        hexbear
        31
        edit-2
        3 months ago

        Also no idea why a guy whose this much of a total fucking loser would be getting called cracker.

        Maybe it's because he was trying to explain to them how he experiences more racism from black people than black people do from white people.

    • Tabitha ☢️[she/her]
      hexbear
      26
      3 months ago

      I've had white people detect my eastern europeanism, I've never had a non-white person act discriminatorily against my skin.

  • Black Charlie White@lemmygrad.ml
    hexbear
    47
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    The “white males” won’t accept this blatant racism many more years without standing up against it, trust me.

    Oh shut up cracker; if Black folk could go 400 years getting enslaved, lynched, marginalized out of 'free' society, unjustly locked up again, enslaved again, marginalized out of 'free' society again, and lynched again and you peckerwoods still collectively draw breath, then internet-tough-guy shit like this is really just dogmade hypocrisy. Can systemically dole it out for generations and generations; but ten fucking years of MILDEST COMEUPPANCE gets you QQ'ing.

    Dogmade.

    • D61 [any]
      hexbear
      29
      3 months ago

      Fuck me... just last week a customer came to the place where I work, older lady and retired former teacher, talking about how she wouldn't be able to get a job teaching at the place she used to teach because... "All the teachers are blacks and Hispanics now. Did you know that that's racism against white people?"

      And my brain broke a little bit and I had to grab a hand scanner and walk behind a wall to make beeping sounds until my brain reset.

    • @forgotmylastusername@lemmy.ml
      hexbear
      26
      3 months ago

      Notice the difference between complaint and threat. Minorities: "That's offensive, please don't talk that way". That guy: "Only a matter of time until we fucking come for you".

      • Adkml [he/him]
        hexbear
        21
        3 months ago

        It's almost like liberals are a hairs breadth away from supporting genocide and they expect a fucking trophy for not being absolute monsters.

      • Black Charlie White@lemmygrad.ml
        hexbear
        14
        edit-2
        3 months ago

        "Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable." -- John F. Kennedy. One of your guys. You've forgotten the face of your father.

        Oh shit. My bad dude; I thought I was still in that hellhole thread full of settlers when I sent that; for a second I thought you were one of them lmfao. Friendly fire; my b, I'm still practically blind with fury.

    • GenderIsOpSec [she/her]
      hexbear
      14
      3 months ago

      The “white males” won’t accept this blatant racism many more years without standing up against it, trust me.

      what are you going to do? piss your pants? cry? do fascism for the nth time? eat shit, loser.

  • D61 [any]
    hexbear
    46
    3 months ago

    Well, I am angry at that. Women and all races deserve equal rights and possibilities. We should keep fighting for that. But white males don’t need to be transformed into comedy punching bags in exchange for women/other races equality. Can we respect everyone INCLUDING white males?

    Guy tells a person who "wrote the book" on a topic that they should "read the book on the topic that they wrote". columbo-donk

    Oh noes!! We shouldn't make fun of them! And we double shouldn't make fun of them if they happen to be both white and male. That's a double disadvantage! i-spil-my-jice

    • Black Charlie White@lemmygrad.ml
      hexbear
      39
      3 months ago

      I love how they can only understand prejudice when it's happening to them, and only in the moment it is. Attention spans of goldfish, with all the malice of a betta, I swear to fuck.

    • RedWizard [he/him]
      hexbear
      29
      3 months ago

      Big, Beautiful Mods! We have the best ones, we really do. Have you ever seen those other mods? Disgusting those other mods, they're not great I tell you, not great, and I know great don't I folks? It's a shame, really, I'm sure Dot World could be a nice place, beautiful communities, of all sorts of... topics and .... discussions. You know if they had mods like ours, heh, well, you know, we might be in trouble! But they don't! That's why we're the best! We only have the best people as our mods! a-little-trolling

  • OgdenTO [he/him]
    hexbear
    37
    3 months ago

    I read a bit of this and it's just the stupidest debate bro garbage and I can't be there anymore

    • Stoneykins [any]
      hexagon
      hexbear
      21
      3 months ago

      Care to share details?

      I use it as a generic browser instance since it seemed to have a benign theme and a wide federation policy, useful for lookin at stuff from many places.

      I have seen shittiness like this, but usually from people from other instances coming in, and a lack of available moderators.

      If there is more than that to consider I would sincerely like to know, please

      • @PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmygrad.ml
        hexbear
        25
        3 months ago

        Before the reddit invasion nearly every time some really shit comment appeared on lemmy.ml, which then served as kind of a hub between instances, it has been by the person registered on one of the three instances: beehaw, sopuli and mander. I never went there since i don't delight in internet hazmat excursions, but those likely represented general level of those instances, that is terminal liberalism and western chauvinism.

  • RedWizard [he/him]
    hexbear
    31
    3 months ago

    I sometimes wish there was a thread diffing tool or something, where I could open a thread and see all federated comments, and show which ones were federated with a given instance and which ones were not.

    • Tabitha ☢️[she/her]
      hexbear
      20
      3 months ago

      If you only want to compare 2 instances, that'd be an easy tool to write and/or integrate into a client.

      • RedWizard [he/him]
        hexbear
        14
        3 months ago

        That's true actually because the instances do all the heavy lifting of federation. You would just need to query both instances for the list of comments and then render them in a single page. There are plenty of possibilities for data visualization here. It would be interesting to see, for example, where votes are coming from on a given post or comment. Or get an idea more generally of which instances are interacting with posts originate from your instance.

    • Stoneykins [any]
      hexagon
      hexbear
      29
      3 months ago

      Yeah...

      Posting this felt like when I find something gross under a rock or something and I make people look at it too to be grossed out with me

  • POKEMONGOTOTHEGULAG [none/use name]
    hexbear
    16
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    It must be really weird having the last name 'McCarthy' with McCarthysism and such being a common -ism. If my name was an -ism I would feel personally attacked every time it was mentioned in a negative light.

  • Black Charlie White@lemmygrad.ml
    hexbear
    15
    edit-2
    3 months ago

    Welp, the aggrieved settlers have started calling cops flagging mods; always funny to see an instance of crackers fragile enough to think it's possible to be racist against them like the last 400 years of western history don't stand as a direct condemnation of them and everything they work to 'build'. (Read here as, "pillage, colonize, and murder".)

    tl;dr fuck becoming the joker i'm going straight killmonger idgaf