• Vladimir_Lentil [she/her]
    hexagon
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    1 year ago

    My main problematic take: I would date a chaser

    I can understand why a lot (most?) trans people wouldn't, but I'm non-op anyway and don't have bottom dysphoria, so someone thinking I'm really hot for being trans wouldn't bother me at all

    • kristina [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      my main issue with this is that chasers are kinda way worse than this. they are usually the most disgusting dudes that want you to come over at 4 am so they can drive drunk while you give them road head. and of course they never shower and will treat you like shit and use wrong pronouns for you

      this is my experience with chasers at least

  • frankfurt_schoolgirl [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    this is why I'm mainly interested in t4t. like obviously chasers suck, but also dating someone just starting to transition it really hard. My hot take is that baby trans don't need partners, they need big sisters.

  • HiImThomasPynchon [des/pair, it/its]
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    1 year ago

    I'm open to dating trans women but I fear that my gaming habits (I play 40k Dawn Of War and New Vegas, mainly) will make me come across as an egg.

    • Vladimir_Lentil [she/her]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      Eggs aren’t bad but if you’re straight having your partners be eggs would be a problem

      For some people before they realize they are trans it can manifest as a attraction to trans people so the partners of trans people being eggs is a somewhat common experience

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