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  • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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    5 months ago
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    'Cause uh...

    I don't know exactly what you are implying here but I do feel like I should be able to look however I want.

    I genuinely do not believe I could be pinned against a wall, unless I also find someone who's big like me. And tbh I like women shorter then me (I mean you probably could have worked that out on your own).

    being tall does not preclude little spoon enjoyment, sheesh.

    But I'll still feel all big kitty-cri idk maybe I'm too worried about how I'll feel in the future. I just want to be a lil smaller cri

    Ah, didn't get that, sorry. Is relatable though.

    • magi [null/void]M
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      5 months ago
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      When you find someone who treats you right a lot of these worries will go out the window

    • ashinadash [she/her]
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      5 months ago
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      Implicator imaginator I happen to agree which is why I didn't like, go hard, but this whole "you can only be cute if you are small and youthful looking and demure and shy", I think it is a thing, some people have written about it is all. I think it's worth examining even a little, Idk.

      I genuinely do not believe I could be pinned against a wall,

      Why not?? Only takes meeting someone a head shorter but twice as strong as you. On estrogen your strength will wane, your limbs may slim. My wife is 5'1", I am 5'7" and she doesn't have any issues. Also liking women shorter than you is fun, I love a partner who is shorter than me kel-bliss

      I don't think you will, if your partner is stronger than you for wall-pinning purposes she may also end up more substantial than you, and so despite your height you can still be the slender waifish little spoon to the muscle gf. You can become "smaller", depending on how you define it, on hormones. Height is just one aspect power-genius

      Yeah sorry for shitposting badeline-anxious

      • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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        5 months ago
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        demure

        Ooh that's a good word to put on my list of things I want to be. idk, maybe. I don't want people to make me feel like a creep for what I want to look like/act like.

        Only takes meeting someone a head shorter but twice as strong as you.

        When you say this, it actually sounds like you are being ironic. There are incredibly few women twice as strong as I am. (light hearted) did you like, forget that I'm big and pre hrt? But I suppose we will see.

        Yes, I do need to become slender. Much happier when I was slender.

        • ashinadash [she/her]
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          5 months ago
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          Demure? Fair play...

          This is not ironic, also again HRT can noodle-ify you. Idk if you've worked out or whatever? Do you really think you're that much stronger than the average woman? Silly egg meow-petted Since you intend to go on hormones that'll only get easier too.

          • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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            5 months ago

            Well I look forward to being turned into a noodle even if I have some concerns.

            And idk, kinda. Not that I'm twice as strong as any woman or anything. But with how big a difference T makes + just being kinda big yea I think I'm stronger then most women? When I read women talking about it they all seem like they feel a lot weaker then most men? Isn't that a big reason women are so worried about safety things, being weaker? I know that's one of my big concerns surrounding safety.

            Yea I'm sure it will.

            • ashinadash [she/her]
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              5 months ago

              You do have options when it comes to that, you can be anywhere from smol noodle to bulked gf or anything else!

              It is true that anyone with testosterone in their system gets a buff to being buff. But also, there are strong women too, so like Idk. Actually many partners I've had have been unusually strong sapphics lea-think huh... Safety is a whole seperate issue though Idk. Pepper spray.

              • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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                5 months ago

                Well hopefully I meet some strong Sapphics :hyperflush:

                Yea, I know. Hard to stay on topic though. Thanks for talking.

            • khizuo [ze/zir]
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              5 months ago

              It’s funny, I do not really encounter women who will talk about being “weaker” than men. It’s really not something that has come up in my life even back when I thought I was a woman. In fact I think I tend to encounter many women who are into fitness and strength training. I do not think I’ve met a woman who said that they feel “weaker” than men. I think the safety concerns that women have come more from their understanding of misogyny in society than any perception they may have of physical weakness.

    • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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      5 months ago
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      I genuinely do not believe I could be pinned against a wall

      You absolutely could, this is more about power dynamics than anything else. As Ash mentioned someone shorter but stronger totally could as well.

      • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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        5 months ago
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        I just realized I did a terrible, terrible job explaining what I meant here. Wow I am a stupid girl. I was meaning like up with my feet off the ground. But because of tall (and kinda heavy) that would be harder. Someone could not lift me off the ground up to eye level.

        But yes that probably would actually work and be fine. Once again eggnog fails to communicate properly 😔

        • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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          5 months ago
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          Lack of imagination on your part, sure you might not be able to be picked up, but consider the alternative, someone could pull you down to their eye level, or hold you down in an embrace to keep you closer. There are plenty of ways to fluster your subs beyond the common ideas.

              • Yor [she/her]
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                5 months ago
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                switch gang we out here. it does make it hard to conceive of how someone could be exclusively top/bottom, though that's another topic entirely

                  • Yor [she/her]
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                    5 months ago
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                    I guess some people have very particular interests, but tbh I find it all very fun and interesting 🤷🏻‍♀️ certainly opens up the dating pool lol