art by nina nijsten

  • kristina [she/her]M
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    1 year ago

    i feel like there is always a certain type of trans woman that is allowed to be visible. gotta wear a dress and a lot of makeup, and i have even heard from some trans actresses that they have been asked to lower their voices to be more visibly trans. and of course we all know how trans women in porn are asked to forgo taking their meds for months for shoots.

    i of course love dresses but rarely wear makeup. i conform to many things but still have many signs of nonconformity, and its weird that even a small nudge away from the trope isn't visible on the big screen.

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      of course we all know how trans women in porn are asked to forgo taking their meds for months for shoots.

      I uh, didn't know that. Why would they ask that, is it so their junk is bigger? But wouldn't that also make their breasts smaller? I thought that was a lot of the appeal (to their cis audience). I haven't heard much about it, but sadly it doesn't surprise me. Do you have an article/video about it you'd recommend to me?

      • kristina [she/her]M
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        1 year ago

        It's for... Fluid dynamics? I know people in the industry that have said this to me, but I'm sure you could Google around for the sentiment I feel like it's well known?

        • BountifulEggnog [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          Ahh, that makes sense. I had forgotten about that. I'm good, I just wondered if there was some big expose piece I had missed, or if linking to it would be easier. Thank you.

  • gowan@reddthat.com
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    1 year ago

    I really want us to come around to the idea that conventionally unattractive people should appear on tv in non-news roles. I want to see the 180cm 100kg transwoman in a love story get their partner. I want to see a fat bald person come out on top and be happy. Im tired of beautiful people in everything

      • gowan@reddthat.com
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        1 year ago

        Oh I was just using that as an example. I just want normal-ish people on tv as main characters.

        To be clear what I don't want is a Heather Matarazzo type who is better looking than many people being called "ugly". I want normal people so that people can watch actors who aren't the ideal lead happy lives.

          • gowan@reddthat.com
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            1 year ago

            Oh absolutely want cis actors. I have wanted this since seeing Steven Spinella win back to back Tonys in the 1990s for Angels in America and realizing despite how incredible he was he wouldn't be on screen much.

    • milistanaccount09 [she/her]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      I'm not really a huge TV person so this isn't quite the same thing but it's something that's turned me off the new Baldur's Gate 3: all the characters are just too shiny for me. It's something I really appreciate about disco elysium for having their characters looking like lt-dbyf-dubois garte etc, the art style all leaves very little room for conventionally attractive characters (indeed, it's a conscious decision by the designers that the lead duo is supposed to be 'pretty ugly')

  • zifnab25 [he/him, any]
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    1 year ago

    There's a community theater in my neighborhood that put on shows once a month when it wasn't a zillion degrees outside. All those actors were normie af. We've also got a local wrestling trope that is extremely normal looking.

    If you want people that look like you doing art, you can find it.